What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 24
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? SAN Antonio
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My girlfriend of about a month and I moved in together into an apartment. I met my girlfriend Connie at a party of my boss. She is 5’5″, blonde, perfect D breasts, perfect body and she is a stripper in SA. Connie is 23 years old. Marla is a 5′ 7″ black stripper that lives in our apartment complex. She is 22, small A breasts, skinny, tight body from California. Debbie is 5’8′, blonde, DD breasts, stripper, hard body. She also lives in our apartment complex. She has the best body of the three, perfect butt, toned legs, beautiful short hair and is 32 years old.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Me and Connie had been dating 4 months when we met Marla at the pool. We started talking to her and found out she is a stripper at a different club than Connie. We ended up going to lunch with her and that was it. I love Connie and we have great sex together and we are perfect in every way. Connie is bisexual and has talked about us hooking up with another girl. In college I dated black ladies and Mexican ladies. Connie is the first white, blonde woman I have dated. So Connie and I decided to ask Marla out on a date. They both got dressed up and we went out on the town. We had a great time and we had a good threesome that night. We have been dating Marla ever since that night. Now Debbie is a woman of the world. She not only strips, but she also is an escort. Connie has a degree in teaching and is looking for a job and pays for school by stripping. She has class and is a lady in public and my lady in bed and Marla is our girlfriend and is a stripper who has had a hard life. She will be starting college this fall. Now back to Debbie. She is used to the finer things in life: money, trips, nice cars, dresses like a lady of high fashion, and she has at least three men who take care of all that for her. She takes care of herself and is the kind of lady men pay to be their date to high class parties and places. They pay her very well and she loves it. Marla and Debbie have been friend for about a year and we met up for dinner one night at the river walk in SA.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Marla had told us about Debbie. We went out to dinner with Debbie because that was what Marla wanted. We went to a club after dinner and all four of us drank a lot. It was late and we drove back to the complex. Debbie had been flirting with Marla all night. I was surprised because I had seen Debbie many times at the complex when I was with Marla and they didn’t even talk that much. But then again Debbie kept to herself. Debbie asked all of us to her apartment and we drank and talked for about an hour. This whole time me and Connie are holding hands, making out, and having a good time. Debbie and Marla started dancing and started kissing. Connie straddled me on couch and started making out and I wanted to fuck her right there and then we got pretty hot and heavy. So Connie and I looked over and Debbie already had Marla with her dress off. Next thing we see is Debbie eating out our girlfriend and she was loving it. So I took off Connie’s dress and undies and fucked her on the couch. Marla screamed out when she came and I filled up Connie with my cum as well. Marla was laying the floor after having an orgasm and Debbie get up and told Connie she was next. She took her dress off and started eating out Connie. I watched for a while and then I picked up Marla and carried her against the wall and fucked her hard and asked her if this was what she wanted for the evening and she said yes. I pulled out of Marla and came on her stomach. By this time Connie was having an orgasm thanks to Debbie. Marla and I cleaned up and sat next to them on the couch. Debbie told me now it was my turn to make them cum. So I fingered Marla with one hand and started eating out Connie and fingered Debbie with my other hand. All three came and we drank some more and talked, sitting there naked. Debbie asked Connie if she could give me a blowjob and Connie said yes. She gave a great BJ and I exploded in her mouth. It was late and we drank some more and Debbie fell asleep. Marla and Connie and I drank some more and fell asleep together in the living room.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning, Marla got up went and got us breakfast. Connie and I had sex again before breakfast in the living room. Debbie got up and came out of her room naked and we all started eating breakfast naked. Next thing I know Debbie took me to her room and we had sex with me on top. I fucked her and came inside of her with a condom. We left her room and Connie and Marla were watching TV. I sat with my girlfriends and we kissed as Debbie watched us. It was past noon and we were watching tv naked. Marla, Connie and I left around 5 PM and Debbie told us we need to do this again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We had great sex and Connie is thee best gf I have ever had and Marla is gf and she is great. We will see what happen with Debbie. I know Marla talks to her and we hope I hope we get to hook up with her again.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Great
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great
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