What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 5

Three-Way With FWB & BFF

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 month ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Dad’s friend is early 50’s, over 6ft tall, black hair with grey on the sides, sky blue eyes, and fit body. He’s married with kids older than me and when dad’s out of town, he comes over and we have sex but not as often as I would like.

Beck (not real name) is my BFF. She’s the opposite of me. She’s well grounded and been dating the same guy that took her virginity. The only excitement she’s ever had was on a trip we took to Colorado and she hooked-up up with a guy and hasn’t stopped talking about her experience. Beck is a cute girl and we’re the same height but she’s got a set of natural breast that I’m very jealous of.

Once it got started, everything went fast. I wanted to tell this experience without it turning into a long boring story. I had Beck’s help and editing skills so nothing big got left out.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’ve hooked-up with dad’s friend 4 times now and finally talked him into a three-way. My plan was to include Claire, (not real name). Clair is my bi friend and is up for anything. I had my first three-way with her we’d done a few with my BF since. She’s crazy fun & her tongue is pierced! WOW! Claire decided to attend college out of state and wasn’t available.

I took a chance and asked Beck because confessed she would like to have sex with an older married man again. Beck and I’ve made out in front of our boyfriends at a party before. She’s a good kisser and enjoy squeezing her natural breasts. BTW: Our boyfriends got horny watching and that was the plan.

Dad’s friend and Beck were on board so we planned when my dad would be out of town. He’s usually gone 4 days at a time. Beck’s not on BC and insisted he use a condom. Beck made plans to stay with me and he sent me a text what time he would be over. Beck started getting nervous because she’d never done a three-way or went all the way with a girl before. (I can’t say that). I calmed her down by telling her I wanted her to have fun with him because she needs more sexual experience. I would do stuff and she could tell me ‘no’ or take action if I got in a position. It’s all up to her to have a great time and it’ll be fun once it gets started. I had plenty condoms on my dresser and a bottle of lube in case she was still nervous.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He arrived as planned and I introduced Beck. He’d met her before and acted like a gentleman with his greetings. I asked if everyone was ready and I got two nods ‘yes’ so we went to my bedroom. We got inside and I pulled Becks straps to her dress and it fell to the floor. We agreed earlier to wear loose dresses with no bra or panties. I noticed his eyes watching as I kissed Beck. She returned the favor and removed my dress. I took her breasts in my hand and kissed them. Then we both removed his pants. When his penis was out, Beck mouthed to me, WOW! I said, “Told you so.” We both sucked him.

We moved to the bed. I put a condom on him and he started out with Beck. They did a few positions while I kissed both. He said he was close and pulled out, took off the condom, I bent over and he did me from behind. He made a few attempts at trying anal (like always) but I waved him off. Beck spread her legs and I went down on her for the first time. He finished inside me.

Beck & I sucked him till he was hard then he started with Beck again. I could tell both were having a good time & I didn’t mind. Wet slapping sounds echoed as Beck squealed with her first orgasm. I straddled Beck and we kissed as he fucked me doggy. Beck whispered in his ear and bent over the bed. He removed the condom and put a lot of lube on his cock. I thought Beck had asked for bareback but instead, he pressed the head of his cock into her ass. I held her ass open as he started out slow and easy. Once he got a good rhythm and Beck was moaning in pleasure. I moved in front of Beck and kissed her while she was getting fucked. She kept biting her lower lip and saying, “I love it!” I was super horny so I spread my legs in Beck’s face. She dove in and went down on me. He gave Beck a second orgasm and she gave me one too. He finished inside her ass soon afterward. We all took a deep breath. He got dressed let himself out.

Beck and I took separate showers. I know, my BF was hoping for a shower story. LOL

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We were hanging out and Beck apologized for being a bed hog. I laughed and told her ‘no worries. I have sex with him often. I wanted you to have fun.’ I told her I didn’t know she was into anal and was jealous because she got to do anal with him before me. She admitted that was her first time. Her BF had been begging and trying for a while but she was too nervous. She thought it would be best to practice first with someone experienced and she didn’t know.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my BF. We’re open and he likes listening to details. I didn’t tell him Beck was involved because I knew he would tell everyone, including Beck’s BF. He would insist we swap sometime. That would be bad for Beck. Beck asked me to keep it anonymous and I promised I would. I’ve known Beck much longer than my BF and would never jeopardize our friendship. Dad’s friend is married so he’ll never tell.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being part of the following first time’s for Beck:
I was the first girl she’d went all the way with.
I was in on her first three-way.
I watched her have anal sex for the first time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing. Everyone left happy and satisfied.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I think people should be more open to casual sex. My BFF is starting to enjoy the pleasures of other people too.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The three-way was a fun ‘one and done’ and we all agree it might not happen again. Beck is open to hooking-up with random guys now and I assured her I would assist with any cover story so her BF won’t find out.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My BF and I are very open with our relationship. He’s never jealous when I tell him when I’ve had casual sex. He actually enjoys listening. I wish Beck’s BF was so open and understanding. When people are young, they should be able to openly express themselves.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice place to share experiences life brings us.

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