by Maria

Gender: Female
Age: 25
Race/ethnicity: white
Current location: Berlin
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Research Assistant
Relationship status: married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? around 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 week

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I spent this semester abroad and I ended up in class with a bunch of international students. There was this very tall and handsome American guy, who I found attractive from the start. But it was just the notion that he looks gorgeous. Nothing else. And there was this British guy, who was not of particular interest to me. Except his accent, that was kind of a turn on for me. But the semester passed without anything to happen. I’m married and I was not looking for a sexual experience. All of us got along quite well. We mostly talked about university stuff when we saw each other. The American was not only very good-looking but he was also very smart. Intelligence is such a turn on for me. Though, I’ve never really had a conversation with the British guy but I figured that he is kind of cool also.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The American guy asked me whether I’d like to work through our assignments a few weeks ago and I thought, well, why not. So we spent time together at the library and had fun. I started thinking about sex when I was with him but I wasn’t sure about him.I knew that he has a girlfriend back home. A few days later he set off for a short holiday trip. We texted like 24/7 and I don’t even know why. One night we flirted and we got to the point that our texts got dirtier and nastier. I figured I wanna get fucked. He came back from his short trip and we fucked a few times. Nobody knew and we very much enjoyed it. The first time that I could share my darkest fantasies with somebody. We talked about everything and we were definitely on the same page. The both of us love very rough sex, including choking, scratching, spanking. We knew that there was only one week left before we go back- back to our normal lifes, so to say his pregnant girlfriend and my husband. So we went out and met later in a club together with friends. We couldn’t help it but secretly touched each other in front of our friends and it was one of the best foreplays I’ve ever had…until he told me that the English guy will crash on his couch this night. So I asked him why not a threesome. It was meant to be a joke but he was like…well, I think my friend would be in. To be honest, it was a surprise and I felt suddenly very excited about the idea of having a threesome with them. After a few more minutes we decided to leave the club. With his English friend. In the cab on our way to his aparment we started making out in the backseat. I gave the American guy a blow job. The English guy was sitting next to the driver and I whispered dirty things into his ear to get him excited as well. He was totally in and that turned me on even more.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So we got out of the cab and we barely could make it to the apartment. Everything was so sexy. I felt their hands all over my body. They kissed my tits, they fingered me, they licked me and at the same time I permanently switched sucking their dicks. It was better than I imagined. Everything went smooth. For a second I was a little afraid that it could be awkward and that we would not know what to do. Further, I was not quite sure about the guys, how would they behave towards each other? Would they kiss, would they touch themselves? No they didn’t. They totally focused on me and I loved it. I gave head to the American guy while his friend fucked me from behind. I stopped sucking his dick because I was about to come. I realized that for the American guy it was more like a competition. He acted a little possessive. He pulled my hair, he slapped me and forced me to keep on going. The three of us had very rough sex. Unfortunately, also raw without condoms inbetween. I loved that both of them like to dirty talk during the sex too. That’s what really got me, it felt so good to just hear them saying whatever they think and at the same time I was able to let go 100%. The only negative aspect was that both of them had quite a few drinks, so they had a few problems to come. Finally, the American guy came in my mouth. I tried my best to pleasure the English also but it didn’t work. So we tried in another room, just us two but it didn’t work either. He went to bed and I laid down in bed next to the American. He told me that he was jealous to see me fucking his friend and leaving him for half an hour to try to make him come next door. Actually, he fucked me pretty hard after telling me this again. I’ve never been fucked that hard and I never enjoyed sex more than this night. The problem is that he told me after that he feels like falling in love with me, which ruined the whole moment. I left without saying goodbye.
The next night we decided to not talk about feelings and emotions anymore. We booked a room in a fancy hotel and spent there one night fucking like 5 times. We spent the night together – sleeping, fucking, sleeping. He fucked me on the floor, against the wall, under the shower. We talked a lot also.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? about 6, the American guy came 1 time, the English guy not

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? we talked about STI, the three of us get tested regularly
since we had also sex without condoms, I took the morning after pill

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was incredibly powerful attracted to the American guy and the English guy was not bad either. Afterwards, I also realized that this threesome was one of the fantasies I would have never been able to live with my husband. Also, it was possible for me to be 100% honest about sexual preferences. My husband could never be that dominant.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? 2 glasses of white wine, 2 gin tonic for me
the guys had a couple of beers and whiskey

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning, we realized that everything is a mess. But at least the both of us never felt that free before. I’ve never talked to the English guy again. I’ve never had sex as great as this before. And we also realized that the both of us (the American and I) are unhappy with our partners but we are committed to our relationships and even though we don’t like the idea of not having sex anymore with each other, we said good-bye and deleted our numbers from our phones. On my way back home I bought the morning after pill. The semester is over and we’re never going to see each other again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? not a single person

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I always wanted to try a threesome but I never thought that it would happen on top of cheating my husband. As far as they told me, both of them enjoyed it also very much, even though it was not the first time for the American.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I feel good about this hookup even though I was worried for a bit about getting pregnant. That would be the worst-case scenario. But actually, this is a risk I was and am willing to take.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this was the honesty and openness. It also made me realize where my sexual preferences lay and that I need to do something about it. It made me realize that I would go on cheating on my husband if I don’t tell my husband that I would like our sex to be more exciting and different.
Furthermore, it opened my eyes about casual sex and feelings. I’m convinced that it wouldn’t have been that difficult in the morning to part after the night at the hotel if we hadn’t had slept together a few times and serious conversations about life. Since I didn’t know the English guy that much before it was way easier for me to leave it like this and also for him.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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