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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Truxton
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Gary was 6’3. 170#, Brown hair ,blue eyes. .Jay is 5’9, 160# Brown hair, blue eyes. Gary was a good friend of Jay. Jay and I.we’re married for 3 years. We had not seen him for 2 years he was divorced about 6 months. I always liked Gary and Jay had no issues with Gary and I making out . When he married his 1st wife she would get jealous so we stopped.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Jay and I made plans to visit Gary where he was stationed. We had a motel room but had no plans for him to come there. We had a baby daughter who we left with friends for the 3 days. The only plans were My husband and I had agreed Gary could come in my kitty as much as he wanted. Jay and Ihad not had sex sincey period ended 10 days before. I wanted Gary to make me pregnant. We had dinner with Gary at a restaurant and just a couple of drinks. We then went to see an old Star Wars movie. We sat in the back with no one nearby. I started kissing Gary then Jay. After the movie was done we went back to the motel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup, we had continued making out on the bed in the motel room. Both guys undressed me. Gary undressed and laid on the bed and got in a hurry and knelt between my legs and entered me. He was slamming into me hard and fast. He came in me after a short time. He later on me for a bit never softening. The second time he brought to climax several times. The next 3 days Gary took me vaginally and Jay either fucked my ass our mouth. Gary was a great lover. We talked about what we were doing. I told both of them what I wanted and they shared what they wanted. We planned to do more sexual stuff over the Thanksgiving weekend, including me with dogs. That is another story.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Jay and I went home. Gary planned to visit Thanksgiving. We continue to get together. His wife now participates. I love my husband and him

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My husband and girlfriend who is now married to Gary. They were excited.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got pregnant.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Gary was stationed in Hawaii for three years.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex has been a good time.

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