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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Pune, India
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Freelancer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Open for experiences
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Threesome With A Married Couple

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met the couple in a typical Indian marriage where we talked and exchanged contacts. He kept messaging me and during that conversation slowly started giving me hints about threesome. He called me up the next day and proposed the idea and introduced me to his wife. The conversation started and it all went well. After a couple of days of conversations and video chats, we decide to meet casually and see if things work to take it off from there. They were a 15 year married couple looking to spice up their sex life.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had planned this over and over for couple of days. Set some rules and boundaries if any of us decided to take it further. We met at a restaurant had food and couple of beers and decided to go in the hotel room. After reaching the hotel we got freshened and through naughty conversation initiated the foreplay.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After really long foreplay we all got naked and started fucking each other. High five, spit roast, DP, we tried every position we could. Tired and exhausted after 3 rounds we took a small nap. I woke up to the noise of moaning that was coming from the wife. She was giving a blowjob to her husband. She looked at me with a smile and started giving me a handjob simultaneously. This converted into yet another session that did end up on a very high and satisfied note.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left for my place after the second session while they both stayed at the hotel for the entire night. I got satisfied comments from them over text messages and we promised to meet again. We have met 3 times after the first experience and they are really chilled out. I feel very comfortable talking about it and planning next meets with them.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A couple of my friends with whom I share everything.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Explored a lot

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not my first casual hookup, so nothing changed as such

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Even talking about sex is taboo in India. The guys I met were 15-20 years elder than me (in India), trust me this is not regular things here. People do exist with a new mentality and the HOPE in you should never die.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? The day we understand that sex is meant for fun and self-satisfaction and that there is nothing sacred about it is the day you will really enjoy and understand sex.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great initiative and should spread all around

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!