Current location: Pretoria
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Relationship status: Dating
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 Months
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Booty call
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is 4 years older than me, yoga instructor, se is recently single and I was an acquaintance her most recent ex-boyfriend
She asked a friend of mine for my number and called me 11pm for a glass of wine. Initially when I met her, I did find her very attractive, she is a short blonde, obvs a great body due to the yoga.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I went over for a glass of wine, we got along like a house on fire, and had great conversation. There were a lot of sexual remarks and jokes made over the course of the night, but nothing too serious, just a lot of sexual tension.
After one bottle of wine, she got up, changed the music, and started stripping.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The stripping led to oral sex, both for me and her, an extensive amount of foreplay, lubes and a vibrator. We had sex twice that night and again in the morning when I left, after she woke me up at 7am and kicked me out cause she had a class at 8 to do.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had every time, by my guess, she had the first time and in the morning. The second time we had sex, I think she faked it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms all round! Had no discussion, but we did both agree on condoms.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Purely physical.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Wine, one and a half bottle.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Not much, I had to travel and she met a new guy a week later which has now developed into something more.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, the scenario regarding the amount of friends we have in common would’ve caused tension, so it remained a secret.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, and I think for her too.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all, there is a certain freedom in having unplanned casual sex, you’re more open to new experiences.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The whole night and morning just fell into place, there was no awkward moments, the morning was sex, coffee and leave with no expectations. It as a hook up, and even today, we get along even better and the sexual tension is still there.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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