What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Missouri
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Time With A Guy
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was 6’2”, white, and basically a twink. He was in the military. We were deployed together and had never hooked up before. We met in a shower. I didn’t feel anything about them before this. I knew he was gay.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was late at night, we were both in the showers at the time (4 or 5 stalls) and were getting out and drying off at the same time.
He had a gorgeous body and an incredible ass. We were standing there talking and I was trying not to look at his cock and ass to avoid getting hard. It didn’t work. He noticed and said, “would you like help with that?” I nervously chuckled and said no, I’d be fine and I apologized. He pushed a little more saying no one would have to know. I then said, “come to my room.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We walked into my room and started undressing. After getting naked, both of us were rock hard. I pushed him onto my bed and laid on top of him. We were making out and stroking each other for awhile. He then rolled me over and moved down to take my cock into his mouth. He sucked me for a few minutes and I suggested we 69. He turned his body around and I started sucking him. I’m 7.5”, cut, with a big mushroom head. He was easily 8.5” with a lot of girth. We continued this for 5-10 minutes then I asked if I could fuck him. He agreed. I got up, got some lube, and went back to the bed. He was on his hands and knees on the bad with his ass facing out. I teased him for a bit with my cock, then started to enter him. Once I got in and he relaxed, I started fucking him. I hadn’t had sex in many months and didn’t last very long, maybe 10 minutes. I pulled out and came on his back.
We both cleaned up and sat in the room for a bit. Probably an hour later, we were both hard again and after blowing each other again, he fucked me. I got on the floor on my hands and knees and he entered me. He was big and it hurt for a bit, but then it felt great. He actually came inside me and I exploded onto the floor.
We again cleaned up, talked for a bit, assured one another we wouldn’t say anything and talked about doing it again (we never did).
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt a little worried about it one, because he came inside me (even though I knew we had both been tested not too long ago), and two, I didn’t want him to say anything.
Later that night, I masturbated thinking about the whole thing.
The next day was a mix of worry (I got over this), excitement, pleasure, and wanting to do it again.
I no longer know him and only think of him on occasion.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve never talked to anyone about it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very fulfilling.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy casual sex. I’m a very sexual person with a very high sex drive.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s an awesome idea!
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