What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 50
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? New York City
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Music Executive
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 150+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tinder Actress in NYC
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Short Caucasian girl, about 32 with red hair, large real breasts, tight ass. Sexy as hell, but kinda goofy. She was an improv actress.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Tinder date. We met at a restaurant. I knew I wasn’t interested in going out with her again, but there was some sexual innuendo and lots of flirting going on. After dinner we left the restaurant and made out outside for a bit. We walked back to my place and she came up. She kept saying, “I told myself I wasn’t going to have sex tonight, but it looks like it’s gonna happen anyway.”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as we got into my place we went to the bedroom and went at each other. She was crazy orgasmic. I went down on her and she came easily. I stuck two fingers in her ass and she went crazy….got off 3-4 times and squirted. I turned her over and started fucking her, then she told me she wanted it in the ass. Her pussy was so wet that it was easy to use that as lube for her ass…so we started having anal. It was so slippery that at some point I came out of her ass and back into her pussy and that’s where I came. After that she was so highly turned on that she came a couple times from me sucking her nipples….she finally asked me to stop because she was so sensitive and worn out. I got her an Uber for the ride home.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We wrote back and forth a couple times, but never saw her again. I was kind of glad because she might be a litle stalkerish.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being with someone who was so intensely sensitive and orgasmic.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? None.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nothing.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Nothing.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very interesting.
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