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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Santiago, Chile
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Tinder BJ

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was strawberry blonde, bit chubby but not fat. We met on tinder and talked for a few days and it got flirtier and hotter as it went. We made clear it was just sex, as she knew I was dating someone.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It as around 10 or 11 pm and we were flirting on WhatsApp and I kinda suggested I needed a blowjob really bad. She grew into it and told me to come over.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went into her apartment, she lived with 2 female friends. She took me immediately to her room and told me to take my jeans off. I told her she had to take them off for me, which she did. At that moment, the bulge in my pants was obvious. She started rubbing me and passing her face and mouth over my dick. Then, took my boxers off and went down on me. She has been the only woman who has ever deep throated me, she took me all in even though I’m bigger than average and, continued to blow me until I told her I was close. That just made her go faster and deeper and I came deep in her throat as she swallowed it all.

We then talked for a little while about random things, and it was kind of awkward. I then left her place back to mine.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kept talking a bit but she wanted something more serious. I felt a bit bad because I cheated on my girlfriend.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A female friend. She disapproved the cheating.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Because I was cheating

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? BEST ORAL EVER.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I cheated

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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