What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Tinder Date Gone Right
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a short, blonde, and blue-eyed woman with an average face and fantastic boobs. A couple of years older than me. We matched on Tinder and decided to meet up later that day to watch a college basketball game. I told her through our messaging that I was only looking for something casual and she responded that that was just fine with her. She said she appreciated my honesty, which I think helped set the tone for the evening.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? When the game was over, she invited me back to her apartment, which was tiny. The only place to sit was the bed. We talked and flirted for a while on the bed before eventually deciding to put on a movie (and we all know what that means). I would say that we both planned and instigated it because it was fairly obvious what our intention was when we got together. We were both just looking for some fun and we got along well – why not?
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As soon as the movie started, we started kissing. Softly at first, with some licking and biting as the kisses became more passionate. I started working my hands around her ass and inner thighs and eventually started rubbing her pussy outside of her pants. She was breathing heavily at this point and clearly into it, so I slipped my hand down her pants and started massaging her lips. After getting her sufficiently (dripping) wet, I put two fingers in her vagina and went to work on her g spot. She was writhing in pleasure. After a few minutes of this, I took her pants off and went down on her. I stayed pretty much right on her clit and licked and kissed her hood, which she loved. As she got more and more into it, she started to face fuck me and moan, all the while saying things like fuck and oh shit and you’re gonna make me cum. I kept at it until she convulsed in an orgasm and then pushed my head away. She complimented my skills before returning the favor. Not a super long blowjob, but it felt great and she did a pretty good job with it. She suddenly stopped and was clearly ready to fuck. I put a condom on and entered her, and it didn’t take long before I was pumping her pretty damn hard. She came again, right before I was about to, and had to stop because her pussy was too sensitive. We took a short break filled with caressing and kissing before I entered her again. Determined to cum this time, I pounded her nice and hard for several minutes until we were sweating on to each other and I came hard into the condom. She didn’t cum that time, but we weren’t done yet. After maybe 20 minutes of relaxing and talking, we started making out again and I began to finger her again. I hit her g spot for a while and then went down on her again, bringing her close to the edge before raising up and fucking her hard one more time. She came intensely that time and spent several seconds convulsing on the bed with my dick still in her. It took her a while to recover. I wasn’t really close to cumming that time and she knew it and offered me a blow job, but I was honestly satisfied already and needed to get home to bed for work the next day. We spent a few more minutes cuddling, talking, and kissing before I left. We both are already looking forward to a repeat.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We texted briefly later that night. Hopefully we’ll get together again as we both thoroughly enjoyed ourselves.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody. I don’t really discuss my sex life with others.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? For just meeting someone that day, the sex was incredible. It felt great to give her three orgasms, and her compliments about my oral skills were definitely an ego boost. We had fantastic sexual chemistry.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I guess I could have fucked a little longer and came a another time, but she was spent. No big deal though.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. I really enjoy casual sex as long as it’s consensual for all parties involved.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? To each their own. Some people like it, others don’t, and that’s OK. Like I said, as long as it’s consensual for everyone it’s fine with me.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Really dig this site. Lots of fun.
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