What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 19
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Miami
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? free spirit
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? >30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Bill (not his real name) is married, mid-40s, black hair, muscular & tall. He sent me a message on Tinder looking for a hook-up for the weekend. He was coming to Miami to golf with friends. I liked his photo so I replied and we messaged a little. Things got heated so we switched to Snapchat to share selfies. I sent him a few bikini photos. I agreed to meet him at his hotel Friday evening. He invited me to dinner at the hotel restaurant first but I politely declined. I told him I only wanted to hook-up. He was cool with that.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I agreed to meet him at 8:30 pm at his hotel. I was wearing an above the knee LBD, matching black bra, lace thongs & black heels. He met me in the lobby and I was instantly attracted to him. He was tall and had the body of a professional athlete, my eyes were level with his chest, & I was wearing heels too. He was in a gray suit and looked hot. I was getting wet thinking we would be naked & fucking soon. His eyes were checking me out. The introduction was quick. He took my hand and I did a little twirl then we got in the elevator. We were alone and he slid his hand up my dress and squeezed my bare ass. His hands were huge and muscular. He complimented my firm ass and I thanked him. I casually brushed my hand across his pants and could tell he was hard.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got inside his room and I immediately loosened his pants and they hit the floor. His cock sprung out and he was already hard. I told him his cock was big. He just grinned. I could tell he gets that compliment often. I began licking and sucking the tip. I was ready to fuck so I stood up and he unzipped my dress, flipped the shoulder straps and my dress hit the floor. I removed my bra and he tugged my panties and they fell to the floor too. He laid on the bed and I rolled a condom on his cock and straddled him. I rode him until I had my first orgasm. He got on top and finished.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I got dressed and started to leave when he asked if I could come back tomorrow at the same time. I already had plans. I was going to a party with my BFF so I told him I couldn’t. He asked if we could hook-up again the next time he was in town. I told him I’d love that. Then I left.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend. He’s cool and loves it when I tell him.
My BFF. I showed her a photo of him and she agreed he was hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having great sex with a hot guy I just met.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing bad. It was all good.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I enjoy having sex with people I’m attracted to.
I’ve used my social media app to hook-up a few times and each experience has been good. My experience has been that older married men are most common in looking for a hook-up. I don’t mind because the sex is always great and they’re less likely to ‘kiss and tell’.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? If Bill comes to town again, I’ll definitely hook-up with him.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Sex is something we should enjoy and try with different people.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Fun to share stories.
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