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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? RN
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Tinder Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 12 hours

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was AA man, we met on Tinder. We started texting for a few days and then he asked me to meet him for drinks after work. He was funny, nice, and respectful via text.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a local bar/grill for the first time and had drinks. We talked and learned more about each other. The sexual tension was intense. After about an hour, we left, and he walked me to my car.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started kissing at my car and I thought I would explode right then. When he pressed against me, I could tell he felt the same. Finally I asked if he wanted to get in my car. We got in and drove to a different parking lot. There was still too much traffic, so we drove a little further to a parking garage. I slipped over into the passenger seat and pulled my pants down. His humongous dick was ready to go. He slid it in gently, then I told him to fuck me hard. He did. I pulled my shirt up and he sucked my nipples. He rubbed my clit as he rammed home. He said he couldn’t wait anymore and so I started rubbing my clit as he increased his thrusting and then he pulled out and came on my stomach. Then he penetrated me again as I came.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed and I drove him back to his car. We kissed goodbye and texted later on the next night and day. We are planning to meet again. I have no expectations for a relationship other than a fuck buddy.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My sister and friends. They were all for it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex was AMAZING.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Neither one of us had condoms so I had to take Plan B to prevent pregnancy and take his word for it that he didn’t have any STDs.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. This was my first hookup and I want to do a lot more now. I was nervous and scared that I would get hurt, but this was a positive experience.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I wasn’t sure how I felt about it before this. I was raised very conservative Christian, so the guilt is bred into us from birth. But hormones and horniness took over. Afterwards, I felt like I should feel bad, just from what I was taught. But I didn’t. If anything, I felt liberated.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great. I read so many stories on here before I had his hookup to see what other people’s experiences were like. Thank you for providing this.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!