This post is sponsored by Trust Massage Oil.
What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Railwayman
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Tinder in Tokyo
How long ago did this hookup happen? Three months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? C was a girl from a Pacific island living in Tokyo. Met on tinder that day and got chatting. I thought she was pretty and I like to meet people of other nationalities/races.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? She invited me to her place, so I got the metro there, she met me at the station and we walked to hers making small talk. When we got there we drank some wine and continued to talk until I moved in to kiss her….
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started making out and my hands started to wander. Eventually her bra came off and I sucked and nibbled on her boobs and nipples. When my hand went down to her crotch she opened her legs and I knew it was game on and she was soaking! I asked if she had condoms, she didn’t but said she was due on her period any day, so couldn’t get pregnant. We moved to her bed and I went down on her and she came. I then worked my way up her body and she guided my cock into her. She was so wet and kept on saying how wet I’d made her. After about five minutes I was close to cumming, and told her, so she wrapped her legs around me to hold me in her and I came but I generally stay hard, so I carried on. She got on top and rode me hard until I came again. She seemed a little worried that I’d cum inside her again, which I remember thinking was ironic seeing as she gave me little choice the first time. She went out for a cigarette and we fell asleep. We both woke in the night and we went at it again, this time I pulled out before cumming.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I left and we kept in contact. She still tells me I’m the best fuck she’s had. She took a pregnancy test as she was worried and it was negative as expected.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Sleeping most of the next day and missing out on sightseeing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I feel it’s good and that it’s unfair that men are looked on more favourably by society than women for partaking.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a good read!
You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!