by MB

Gender: Male
Age: 36
Race/ethnicity: caucasian
Current location: brooklyn ny
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: photographer
Relationship status: single
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? no idea
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Tinder Rendezvous

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks

How would you best classify this hookup? internet rendezvous

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? The woman and I matched on Tinder. I had never seen her in person and was slightly apprehensive due to her somewhat blunt communication style. I was pleasantly surprised at how attractive she is, and her body is amazing. She’s fit with curves in the places I like them.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was surprised we matched on Tinder, as it seemed to me she would probably be attracted to a different type of guy. We wrote a bit before she asked me if I was good at giving massages and invited me to her house. She was so straightforward that I was intimidated before meeting her, wondering if she would be too pushy or aggressive for my taste (along with wondering if it was fake). She turned out to be a nice balance of feminine and straightforward, and we kissed quickly after I entered her home.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into her bedroom, I took off her clothes and she laid down on the bed. I gave her a 30-minute massage and then progressed into touching her, which then progressed into oral sex given by both of us. Then some more fingering and anal play on her. We tried having sex but I can’t feel a thing with a condom so it didn’t work. We then went back to three fingers in her vagina and one in her ass. Then she went down on me and I finally came. 

The end was nice, we cuddled and talked for about 20 minutes before I left. She was a great partner, generous and direct and open.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had one orgasm and I was led to believe she had two or three.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We had both just been tested but didn’t have the results and did use a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I love connecting and being sexual with beautiful women.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had a drink before going to her house and one when I got there. I had a slight buzz at the very beginning but it quickly dissipated.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We cuddled and talked and then I went home, as we both had to be up early the next day. We discussed doing it again but that I would wait for her to contact me, as this was clearly a hookup instigated by her on her own schedule. We discussed doing it with another girl next time as well. I certainly hope to hear from her again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told a few close friends and they loved hearing the story—it’s not a common hookup scenario at all. But not that many people will know about it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it was a great experience for me and I hope the same for her.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing about this hookup was that it was passionate, erotic and explicit. The hookup hasn’t changed how I think about casual sex—yet.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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