What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 26
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Teacher
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? none
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met this girl on Tinder. She had beautiful blue eyes and a nice tight ass. We chatted for a bit and I could tell she was down to fuck. She loved uncut cocks and since I happened to have one, I asked her if she would like to see it on snap chat. She said yes and had a great time admiring it. She wanted to suck and fuck it, but I said only if we went without a condom. We decided to meet that weekend.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We met at a bar and had fun chatting right away. We could barely contain ourselves, so after just one drink we went back to my place and starting chatting on my bed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We quickly got to making out and got naked pretty soon after. She pulled out my cock and started sucking it and stroking the foreskin over my head. She was a natural – best head I’ve ever gotten. She had me close to the edge so I asked to fuck her pussy without a condom. She said ok because she was on the pill and she couldn’t resist my cock. She felt so nice and tight and warm, and we went at it for a bit then I pulled out and came in her mouth. We chatted for a bit and fell asleep and then fucked again in the morning.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both felt great. We hooked up a couple more times and chatted a lot before it fizzled out.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only told one person a year later.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Best head I’ve ever gotten and not having to use a condom.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoyed it for a period in my life, but I moved on from it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great to see that others have experiences like mine.
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