What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Tallinn
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Sales Manager
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Had plenty of diverse experiences in the past
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Tipsy Girl at a Bus Stop
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a Russian girl. I saw her at a bus stop; she was sitting there, drinking some light alcohol. She smiled when she saw me and had a certain openness to her, so I asked her if she needed some help. I felt like she was beneath me, not someone I would date.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I offered to take a walk with her and helped her carry some things. She started talking about her friends being in town and behaving like sluts. I felt bold, grabbed her tits through her clothing and asked, how she felt about fucking in general. That switched her mood instantly; there was no need for bullshit any longer. We reached some secluded place near a park.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She asked me to take my shirt off and turn around so that she could see my body; I was pretty ripped at the time. Then she told me to pull down my pants and started sucking my cock. I was horny all day, but I didn’t want to cum because my girlfriend was waiting. I asked her if I could fuck her, but she said no, she had some issues with health. She gave me her phone number.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We met again, she had a fetish for fucking in toilets, but I couldn’t get it up because of the stench.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I described that to some of my female confidantes, they were shocked.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I was unfaithful.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was so random and quick.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was not very clean.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I understood that I do not want every kind of sex.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It is a bit dangerous and degenerate, but it happens to humans occasionally.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very hot reading.
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