by jacrou

Gender: Female
Age: 46
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: NZ
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Co Director
Relationship status: Divorced
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 41
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Numerous

Toga 69

How long ago did this hookup happen? 26/27 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? ONS oral only
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I can’t describe him really as I don’t remember him all that well.  He was at university at the same time as me and was in a wider group of friends, so we would’ve known some of the same people and I vaguely knew who he was, but didn’t really talk to him or know him.  As far as I can remember, average height and build, brown hair……

I was at a toga party at someone’s house. This was not long after I’d lost my virginity at the ripe old age of 19, to a longstanding FWB, with whom I’d had a lot of oral sex before that.  We were still in a FWB arrangement but he wasn’t around this particular night. In some of my earlier stories I described what a tame scene we had, where lots of people were virgins until reasonably late, not much sex was going on.  But I think this was the turning point where people started to think hey, I’m a grown-up, and at university,  I should be having some sex by now!  In ‘My first time’ I mentioned my best friend was insanely jealous of me having lost my virginity and was hellbent on losing hers asap, well she lost it in a bush at this toga party.

Anyway, for whatever reason, this party went crazy.  Probably just the combination of everyone being only dressed in bed sheets, lots of alcohol and lots of raging sexual frustration. There seemed to be quite a lot going on in the dark in the garden.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I honestly can’t tell you how it started. I was pretty drunk and as I said, half-dressed in a sheet.  I remember running into this guy outside, him kissing me, then we walked up around the side of the house where it was a bit quieter. There was a thin concrete path running around the outside of the house.  We lay down on the concrete path and just had a totally random 69.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He was on the bottom on the uncomfortable concrete path, me on top. Totally dark with loud music playing and with the occasional person running past apparently not worried about 2 random people having oral sex on the garden path.

From what I remember he was decent at it but then it’s hard for it not to be enjoyable to have someone licking your clit.  I enjoyed sucking his cock too, it just felt so unexpected and exciting and I like the feeling of a cock in my mouth.  We went at it for quite a while because for some reason it seemed we had just decided it was going to be oral only.   I came but he kept going.  I used my mouth and hand and went faster until he came in my mouth and I swallowed it because it’s yummy.

Then we got up, smiled at each other and just walked back inside to the party.  No discussion and we didn’t even really hang out together after that.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes and yes.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Not necessary?

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Feeling wild – opportunity presented itself.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, we were both pretty drunk.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing at all happened.  I didn’t see him around much so by the time I saw him next a fair bit of time had gone by and we didn’t ever refer to it or even have much of any kind of conversation.  I didn’t want anything more from him and was quite happy for this to be a one off.  I felt fine about it, it seemed exciting and harmless.

I have never really known him but we still have mutual friends and very occasionally I’ll see or hear his name come up in conversation and I have a wee smile to myself and think: I had a 69 with that guy!  Like me he’s a respectable professional and parent. I have no idea if he even knew who I was or remembers me, but I don’t really care either way, it was a random small moment.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend.  However what I did was eclipsed by her losing her virginity that night.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes and yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing was the randomness and uncomplicatedness – just a brief moment of sexual pleasure when it was unexpected.

Nothing bad.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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