by Elizabeth

Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Location: Alberta, Canada
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Retail
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Too Much Fun, Too Fast

How long ago did this hookup happen? May 2014-June 2014

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling / Friends with Benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My hook up was a man of about 5’9″. I met him at my job and didn’t know him too well at the time. He had glasses, hair that was slicked back and shaved on the sides and back, had a septum ring and a beard. Before the hook up, he annoyed me when he would talk to me but I also found him to be attractive.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began around May 9th 2014. I went out for drinks with some people from work and got a bit tipsy, so I messaged him asking if he wanted to hook up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did pretty much everything and I felt amazing during it all. I did orgasm a few times and he did as well. He acted normally towards me, didn’t really treat me like trash or anything special either, just like a friend he slept with.

We talked about anything and watched a few movies and even listened to music together. Shared sex stories and work dreams. He was a good lover and it ended I guess when I asked if he wanted to hook up again 3 days after our last time. He said he didn’t think he could do it anymore.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We did discuss it and we used condoms.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was bored and found him hot. I wanted to have some fun.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We drank a little.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really sad when it ended only because I still wanted to have my fun. I’m usually the one to get bored. I just hope we can still remain friends and adults about it all. I currently still feel like I want to make out with him but don’t hate him for ending it.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one yet, some people know I wanted to do him but not that it happened.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yea

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No I do not.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The time I spent with him after the hook up, the flirting in texts we did, and his smell.

I feel the worst was not enough different sexual positions.

It made me realize I can do hook ups and casual sex, it makes me want to try it more.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I just wish I knew it was going to be the last time, I would have made the sex better, wore sexier panties and clothing.

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