by Cornell Latino

Gender: Male
Age: 28
Race/ethnicity: Latino
Current location: Ithaca
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
Occupation: Graduate Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70-80
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Toothpaste

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Two-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I did not know her, we just randomly met on the street. We were both drunk.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was walking back home from a bar and saw her, I thought she was very attractive. I just approached to her and said “lets fuck” and she said “yes”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As we were walking to my place she told me she loved really rough sex.  Then she told me she wanted to do anything i wanted with her, that as soon we walked by my door she wanted me to hit her, pull her hair, fuck her really hard and that I only should stop if she said the word “toothpaste”.  I never knew her named and she did not asked for mine, she just called me Pedro.  As soon we got inside my place, things were crazy, I tied her down, we had extremely wild sex for 3-4 hours. Amazing oral, vaginal and anal sex. It was amazing! Then she left and never heard back from her until a year after when she texted me “Pedro, I am in town. Leave the door open” which I did immediately….

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both came a couple of times

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? we were both drunk

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? lots of drinking on both ends

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I saw her once a year after and then never again

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? some friends, they thought it was crazy

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It was so random

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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