What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Norway
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Self employed
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25-30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Top Turned Into Bottom.
How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? A young arab/mixed race guy aged 23. I wanted to try out real gay sex on a planned visit to a major European city. Found him on an escort site. Chatted for a couple of months and agreed to meet up.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came to my hotel as we had agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He looked stunning with a slim shaved body and a nice, cut cock. A pleasant surprise as his photos were not that great. We chatted for a while and had a small glass of white wine. Suddenly he sat on my lap and started kissing me, which felt very nice. We touched each other all over, and I could feel his cock getting hard through his jeans. We got up and he started undressing me – I did the same with him, revealing his slim and smooth body along with his rock hard cock. It made me extremely horny! He got down on his knees and started licking and sucking my cock. After a bit we moved to the bed were he got me on all four and started to lick my ass. We had agreed that he would top me if I felt like it. Felt incredibly good!!! I had always been a top but at this point I craved for him to top me (I was empty and clean). He laid me on my back, raised my legs and slowly pressed his cock inside me. Painful at first, with a burning sensation. I was not sure if I could go through with it at that point. He told me to relax, and kept his head inside me for a while without moving. After a minute or two I started to relax very well and after that it felt really good. His cock was large with an even larger head, but he took his time and I was able to take the whole cock inside me. I felt really «complete» and fulfilled – this was my first time ever! He started to fuck me, and leaned over me to kiss me at the same time. I clung to him and it all felt very close and intimate. After about 10 minutes I could feel I was close to an orgasm, and so was he. He came inside me more or less at the same time I ejaculated. He slowly pulled out and we lay side by side just holding each other. I felt really good. We cleaned up and went back to the bed. Talked for a bit and then he started sucking my cock again. We ended up in the 69 and I licked his balls and ass. He smelled and tasted so nice. He turned over and we were in a spoon position. He squeezed against me and I positioned my cock against his ass. He sort of slid right on it, and we had a most wonderful fuck with him doing a lot of the «work». Took some time for me to cum for a second time, but in the end I came inside him while he wanked his own cock. I pulled out and he sprayed my chest with his cum. He lay on top of me and kissed me. It all felt very very good!
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felt great the whole time, even the next day. He texted me that same night, thanking me for the nice time. We have kept in touch and I will see him again soon. He turned out to be a very nice and honest person.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Discussed STI testing history, Exchanged recent STI test results
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? None.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Knowing I can be a bottom as well :))
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? NA
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? A little bit yes.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good!
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