What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Manager
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25-30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had noticed a sexy black guy with long dreads at the gym, and I saw him checking me out. He asked me about my workout and it came out that we lived across the street from each other and both liked to blaze. We agreed to hang out at mine after our workouts.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He came over with a joint that we started smoking. We had music on and were chillin on my bed. We started making out, maybe he initiated the kiss. His lips were full and soft and he was an amazing kisser.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started pulling each others clothes off and he put on a condom. He started fucking me and his rhythm was incredible. The angle and depth was just right and my whole body felt good. We did missionary and doggy style. I lost control during doggy and came so hard, which usually doesn’t happen for me from penetration. He came right after me. We lay down and probably smoked another j.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I wanted to see him and hook up again. I was a little embarrassed about how we met but I figured it was convenient. It turned out he had a girlfriend and she may have been pregnant, so that ended real quick. We aren’t in contact anymore and I don’t know if that baby was ever born.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my roommate, I don’t think she was thrilled about it, especially after the information about his girlfriend surfaced
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The way we had sex was just on point and felt really good, like he knew how to touch me to make my body react
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The aftermath where I found out he cheated
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me more aware that people cheat and I think about asking before
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with casual sex but only if both partners are equally into it and there’s no pressure to do anything.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Very cool idea I look forward to reading and submitting more stories
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