What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Trip to Vegas
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was dark skinned about 5 ft 4 inches tall, in her 40’s, long black hair. She had a nice b cups and a failry firm ads.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had just walked out of a strip club downtown. She was standing right outside the entrance. She had on jeans and a sweater. She approached me and asked if I wanted to grab a drink with her. I took her for a working girl at first. I agreed to a drink as she was pretty cute and I had just got done getting grinded on by girls in the strip club. We went and had a drink and talked a while. She then asked if I wanted to go up to her room at the hotel. I agreed.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to her room and she said she usually didn’t take guys to her room like this. She told me she was married and had just had a fight with her husband on the phone. We poured another drink then she kissed me. She asked if I had a condom. I did have one. She took off her clothes as did I. She mentioned how much better looking I was than her husband. I opened the condom but she pulled me close and took me in her mouth first. She didn’t really seem like she knew what she was doing. I slowed her down and helped her rhythm. She then stopped and said she wanted me inside her. She laid back and spread her legs. I got on the bed between her legs. She stopped me and said to put on the condom as she was not on the pill. I rolled the condom on and then entered her pussy. She was super wet and it slid right in. She almost immediately came. We did missionary for about 10 minutes and she came again. I then pulled out and told her to roll over. I pulled her up to doggie. I said I wanted to take the condom off. She said okay just pull out. I entered her from behind and pounded into her for about 5 minutes before I was ready to cum. I didn’t pull out and shot a huge load inside of her. She turned around and slapped me and ran into the bathroom. I got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Not sure we never exchanged numbers. She was obviously mad I came in her.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? The friends I was with
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Thrill
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Her head skills
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
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