What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oklahoma
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Separated
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Truck Stop Random
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was of average height, average weight, medium build, in his early forties, and was a white guy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had been looking around on grindr all morning. I’d been striking out for the most part, not really finding anyone that was up for the same things as me, and that I found attractive. On a whim, I messaged him, and he responded rather quickly. He wasn’t exactly my type, but I was very horny, so I arranged to meet up with him in his truck at the nearby truck stop. I had to run to the store first to buy condoms, but then I was ready to go.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
When I arrived at the truck stop, it took me a few minutes to find his truck. Because I wasn’t exactly into him, I had requested that he would be face down waiting for me when I arrived. I climbed into his truck, and there he was, naked and displaying his pale ass and his nice, full, hanging balls. It was exactly what I was looking for. The sight of him aroused me quite a bit. I moved up behind him, took a condom from my pocket, put it on and lubed it up, before I slowly started to slide myself into his tight asshole.
Immediately, he clinched up. He instructed me to go slowly. As I slid myself deeper and deeper into him, he begin to relax. He complimented me on my thickness. As I began to thrust, he started to moan, and I could tell that he was enjoying it. We continued at a moderate pace, and I really started to get into it. His ass felt really good up against me, and we continued fucking for several more minutes. When I was getting very close to cumming, as he had instructed me previously, I pulled out, ripped off the condom, and came all over his balls and ass. I left him covered in my cum, pulled up my shorts, and got out of this truck.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I cannot possibly imagine that I’ll ever see him again. I didn’t save our conversation, and even if we saw each other again, we probably wouldn’t recognize each other. It seems like we both enjoyed the experience, and that’s all there is to it.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Boredom, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I didn’t get enough information about his STI status
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? We both enjoyed it
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The possible riskiness.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it!
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