What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dallas
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Love sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
True Casual Sex – One Night Stand of Fun
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last week
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cute Hispanic girl who just turned 21, about 5 ft 8, cuttteee face and this figure
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My buddy and I were out for wild night of drinking, he loves clubs, so we went to a club first, my other friend got kicked out so we left to a pub, that’s where I met my girl, they wouldn’t let her in the bar to use the restroom so I suggested my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? So, my buddy, her and I all were having drinks in my room and I don’t know how b/c I was really drunk he left and it was just me and her, we started making out in Thor bed and she was really into it.
I was pretty drunk so the beginning was hazy. I got all her clothes off and started to go down on her and then lick her nipples which drove her crazy.
I proceeded to do her missionary and doggy style. At one point, she just started crying for no reason, when I asked if everything was okay she said she just gets emotional…
I remember filling her cute butt over and going down on her ass, and sticking my tongue down in her ass… fabulous. She said, later on, wow you went in deep!
We had sex all night and didn’t get any sleep at all, I felt terrible the next day
The next morning we got breakfast and I brought her back to my hotel to have more sex which we did. All in all, my favorite part was fucking her doggy style and licking her ass… I never got her name which I find hilarious it was truly a one night stand.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt great… not bad that I cheated b/c I’m not sexually satisfied with her. I realized I can fuck marathon sex and that I could pull a 21 yr old cutie even when I’m 34 is a confidence booster.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel better about myself, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Power / Dominance
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my buddy who stayed at the hotel, he told others word gets out
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I ate her cute little ass… love it, I wish she let me penetrate her cute ass
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She puked in the morning, I was drunk the first night
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? More confident
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Keep the good times rolling
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Love it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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