by NoLiE

Gender: Male
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Illinois
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12

True Gay Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? I was 16 and 17

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? FWB

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Decent looking 24 year old with goatee bit of a belly

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Random internet chatroom

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? This was crazy. Randomly met him on gay chat room we were from same college town. Met first time and gave handjobs and he sucked me. Second time was the best time. Picked me up went to his dorm at midnight and he was really feeling it this time. We turned on porn and he grabbed my junk and started giving me head. This guy could suck lol. Then he bent over and I stuck it in him with no condom. I’ll never forget the moan I had. Best sex I’ve had ever. I also sucked him. We met another time and fucked in the woods on a blanket I tried to let him fuck me but I couldn’t do it. We met once more at my place when I had it all to my self. We watched porn, beat off, 69ed, and came all over each other.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Oh yes. Yes we did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None we never used condom. We were each others first.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Horny gay sex

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Little.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Regret after then I crave it a week later. I miss him haha

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? You guys

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned I can have sex with a man and have no emotional feelings. Also heavy orgasms.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

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