What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Italy
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Truth or Dare
How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is very tall, brown eyes and hair. Brooding type.
I knew him pretty well, we lived together as flatmates for 2 years, but we never hooked up before, in fact, I hadn’t seen him in 2 years. I was attracted to him in the past, but nothing ever happened.
We met again a week ago at a supermarket near his house and decided we should meet up for a coffee one day.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He texted me late afternoon asking if I was free to do something after dinner. I decided to go.
We went for drinks at a nice place and then moved to a pub near his house that we both wanted to try. After we had our drinks he asked if I wanted to see his apartment, and I agreed because I was curious to see where he lived. Also, I kind of hoped something would happen between us.
Once in his house, he turned on the lights to a soft glow and we continued talking until he asked me if I wanted to play truth or dare. I accepted. We both choose truth a couple of times and questions we answered were on our previous partners or hookups. I finally chose dare and he dared me to kiss him, which I did. I was turned on enough that we didn’t continue the game, I kept on kissing him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We started with kissing and we found our way to the bed where in between various groping we lost our clothes.
He started kissing my nipples, touching my breasts and then he made his way to my pussy opening my legs wide. He licked my pussy for a while before he started kissing me again. After a bit of kissing, I went down on him and sucked his cock. He didn’t finish in my mouth, he wanted to finish on my breasts and stomach. So he jerked off while him and I both touched my breasts and nipples.
After he came, I started to touch myself to bring myself to orgasm. He helped me by touching my breasts and at some point alternating between squeezing my ass and lightly spanking me. I finally came.
I didn’t have the best orgasm of my life with him but it was a good time anyway, finally being naked with him after years of knowing each other.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hookup we cuddled for a half an hour, then I decided to leave and went home. We won’t hear from each other for a while (he is leaving the city for a couple of months), but we both wanted a one night stand and we both don’t want a relationship.
Maybe who knows, in the future, we might get together again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked about it with my best friend. They were surprised, didn’t think he was my type.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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