Current location: Australia
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Relationship status: Partnered
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Two Boyfriends And Me
How long ago did this hookup happen? Current
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with benefits.
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My partner (23, causasian male) and I have been in an open relationship. More open for me..I have had the chance to experience other men, without him present. My only requirement is that I provide a video or two of my sexual acts so we can watch together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? My partner insigated it. I was somewhat hesitant at first. But I took it upon my stride and I saw the benefits (boosting my self esteem, practicing how to pick up guys/participate in sex).
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Everything was discussed over the time I had several partners..but which my partner and I were constant..so with several experiences how to and how not to…we finally tried the last partner (my old crush from when I was 15/afraid to ask out).
The personality of the last lover and my partner were that they were incredibly similar. This was more attractive than all the others..and leads into the temptation craving sex, but because I am, unafraid of losing my stable 4year long relationship..my loyalty still remains with my partner, yet a great friendship lies with my lover, and the expectation that it will end. Hopefully with him securing his own partner/ leaving us.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? After every instance of a new lover, myself and my partner would have std/sti tests on a very regular basis. I was on depo provera, and Leveln but now I am on nothing, simply containing any sex to strictly non fertile days…being 10/13 days possible over the entire cycle…not every day til I am fertile/ovulating.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Simple fun, there’s no fear for anyone to cheat as we all enjoy
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? On vary rare occasions was Marijuana used. If not any.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Amazing, everything has been a decent learning curve. No jealously nothing really hidden..complete loyalty to my partner. He is the one I stay with and love the most.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only us involved. Others and several would and do not approve of the setup.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes. Consensual on every level of idea, down to action and who/
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Some lovers would have been better with an emotional connection or even more practice!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? The last one is lasting the longest. More depth and connection lead to a greater understanding and a true powerful friendship. Hence I am in love with two men at the same time and not in a terrible predicament
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