What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Two Chinese Escorts

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex / Group sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I didn’t know their names. I found them online while traveling for work in Asia. They were two Chinese women who offered themselves as a massage duo. Both of them were physically fit and fairly pretty. I’ll call the older one A and the younger one B. A was probably in her mid to late 20’s with nice tits and a small ass. B was probably 22-24 and had a nice round ass and small tits with a beautiful face.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened at my hotel. I messaged their number and arranged a date.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? They came into the room and I was nervous as my previous single experience with two escorts had been less than comfortable. They came in all smiles and I introduced myself. Their English wasn’t great but they seemed comfortable with each other and I made some jokes to lighten the mood. A seemed to be in the lead and counted the payment which wass left on the desk, and then we got down to business.

They stripped to their underwear while I took off my clothes and laid facedown. They gave me a semi-decent massage. They talked about my body while they worked on my back, giggling to each other. I was getting less nervous and so I decided to turn over. They both started touching my cock which they seemed impressed with as it is 7” and thick. A got between my legs and started out sucking and licking my balls while B licked my nipples. A slowly worked up my shaft and started giving me a really wet bareback blowjob while I reached down and played with B’s pussy as she continued to suck my nipples. I was getting close, so A rolled a condom onto me and climbed up, squatting over my rock hard cock while B got behind her between my legs. A lubed up her pussy and slid down onto my shaft. She started out slow and gradually increased her speed while B started squeezing my balls. That quickly put me over the edge and I had my first orgasm inside A in the condom.

We took a quick rinse off and then they went back to massaging me. They chatted happily while they were kneading my back muscles and I could feel my relaxation starting to build into sexual tension again. B started playing with my balls and getting me hard again so I turned back over.

They switched roles, and B started out working my cock with her mouth while A licked my nipples. B was giving me really great head and asked if I was ready to fuck, but I told her I wanted to come in her mouth and she seemed fine with that, so she kept sucking, increasing her pace. After a few minutes, A joined her between my legs, sucking my balls while B continued to work my shaft. That put me over the edge and I had an intense second orgasm, cumming in B’s mouth. She continued sucking until I was done and swallowed my load. I gave them both a generous tip which they were happy about and said to call them next time I was in town and then left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Guilty. It wasn’t the first time I’d cheated on my wife, but I always feel a bit bad in the immediate aftermath.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Boredom, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? I don’t like to cheat, but have a hard time controlling my urges to do so. I don’t have as much sex as I’d like with my wife.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The two ladies’ enthusiasm and kindness. That second BJ was amazing too.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Worrying about STI’s from unprotected oral.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I wish my wife was more open to playing with multiple partners or opening up our marriage. I’d love for her to explore as well.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex is great but also complicated. It’s hard to match to people’s expectations and desires when you’re planning for a life together.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

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