What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 38
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? construction management
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? 100% straight , I can’t control my urge to explore our sexual fantasies
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Two Different Men Back to Back in 1 Night
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 weeks
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife is a tall, dark skinned Latina, with tight curly hair, wide hips, big butt, beautiful skin, and beautiful face. The 1st partner was – BBC 9″ long and as thick as a can of soda, the 2nd partner – Latino 8″ and average thickness. I met these guys over a swinger site, it was her first time meeting them. I met them on a previous occasion to talk details, I felt that they were respectable gentleman, the 1st man had been in the lifestyle for 23 years already so he was as close to a porn star as you can get.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? For the 1st man, we met at a high end, secured, and gated erotic location where the rooms went at hourly rate. We planned a week in advance and talked details beforehand. I initiated contact. With the 2nd man, the location was at his apartment where we met directly after the 1st encounter, I also initiated contact and spoke details prior to meeting.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? 1st encounter we arrived and greeted each other, my wife was nervous, she had been looking at black porn and rubbing her pussy in the uber ride over to get herself worked up. We all sat and talked a little bit as my wife smoked some marijuana, the 1st man told her that she had a nice ass and if he could see it, she stood up and pulled off her dress and turned around. He then slapped her ass, she asked me to get up and come to her, as we began to make out and kiss, the 1st man came behind her and began to kiss her from the back. I pulled her panties down and continued to kiss her, the 1st man had already had a massive hard on as soon as I pulled down her panties and he began to slap her ass from behind with his massive cock. As soon as she felt his cock slap her ass she took a deep breath and her eyes lit up bright with excitement, she turned around to see his cock fully erect, she was so excited with the size of his cock and began to suck both of our cocks at the same time. She was hardly able to fit his manhood in her mouth as she anxiously attempted to choke on his cock, we moved to the bed where she continued to suck him and I was giving her oral. She got on top of the 1st man and inserted his massive cock in her vagina and she took a deep breath and moaned as she shoved his whole cock in her pussy. She began to ride him, and while she was riding him, she was sucking my cock but wasn’t able to concentrate on sucking my cock because of all the screaming from all the explosive orgasms she was having back to back riding man number 1. After that she wanted him to fuck her doggystyle, again she screamed at the top of her lungs from the intensity of the orgasms while she sucked my cock. The whole session lasted 1 hour and a half from beginning to end, when we were done she came to me and wanted for me to confirm our meeting with man #2. We got to man 2’s apartment and she was impressed with the cleanliness of his entire place, it reminded her of her college days which me her immediately comfortable. We sat on his couch and they both talked about her college days and about his schooling as well. She played with her hair and flirted as we all talked, he went to the bathroom and she asked me if it was ok if she kissed him, I agreed. He came back and she began to kiss him while he rubbed on her pussy, we all began to take off our clothes and moved to the bedroom where we had endless sex with all different positions, double penetration, screaming orgasms. I was a lot more active in this second meeting then the 1 previous. After 3 hours of sex and 3 ejaculation from myself and #2, we were finally done and it was time to go home. On the ride home she was so excited and could not believe the experience that just took place, for me, my high was coming down from all the excitement and reality began to settle in. I asked myself what I just did with the women I loved, all her reactions and screams were all too familiar with me, so seeing her scream during orgasms is not nothing new to me because she never had an orgasm with any of her previous encounters. I was the 1st man in her life to make her orgasm with such intensity when we met at 26 years old, we have been together for 12 years and I have made this woman orgasm and squirt like you wouldn’t believe. So it made me wonder why I was feeling this way, especially since I knew what was going to happen during the 2 meetings, it kind of had me puzzled. Was it because, subconsciously, I thought that another man could never please her the way I did? I’m not sure and still trying to figure it out. We went home and I had mixed feelings of arousal, sadness, and anger. I have had trouble sleeping and not to mention masturbating at least 3 to 4 times a day fantasizing about that night but also angry at the same time. I look at her when she walks around with her little shorts showing her ass and can’t help but imagine that night, and then I have to run to the bathroom and masturbate.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Overall I love my wife dearly and she has been 100% faithful and loyal to me over the years, I have put this women through hell with infidelity on my end. This had been a mutual fantasy of ours over the years, with mainly me pushing her to agree to finally make it happen. I thought endlessly about this and felt she has no fault in this, she was doing this to please me at the end of the day. I choose to accept everything and move forward, we are planning our next meeting in the next month or so with possibly 2 desperate meetings in the same night. I will make a decision after this next meeting if we really want to continue this lifestyle. Based on my meetings with the 2 next candidates most likely it will be 1 Haitian guy and 1 Italian guy. I will keep everyone updated to what happens.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? feeling the way i did after the night
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the excitement and freedom
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? seeing my wife can be be pleasured by another man
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? maybe but this is still has been undetermined
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I believe fantasies are meant to be fantasized about. Once the line is crossed there are possibilities you will never comeback from. The lifestyle is a risk to your family and these risks need to be understood by both parties involved. I believe we will continue to play for a period of time to see where this takes us as a married couple.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think this lifestyle is dangerous and not for everyone, but with good communication, understanding, love, and great sex between the 2 individuals, I think all negatives can be overcome. I felt a certain way after the first time, but I expected that outcome. I communicated with my wife and we are onto the next experience.
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