What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Oklahoma
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Versatile
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Two Married Guys
How long ago did this hookup happen? This Morning
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is a really handsome late 20s while guy. Blonde hair, well kept beard. Not a small guy but well built. He had told me that he wasn’t attracted to guys, but was just looking for the sex. I found him to be very attractive.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I found his ad on a classified website, and we went through the typical back and forth till we agreed to meet. He told me where his house was and I went there.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went into his house, looked him over and followed him to the living room. We then stripped, each of us wearing a pair of our wives panties. Mine being crimson boy shorts, his being a purple thong. He sat down on the couch and motioned me over. he sucked my cock. It wasn’t bad, but I could tell he was trying to move things along. Once I was hard, he had me back up, and while I was putting on a condom, he lubed up and got on his hands and knees on the couch. I was really enjoying him, and getting really excited about what might happen. He said that he wanted me to go slow and helped guide my cock to his ass. We made several clumsy attempts to put my cock into him, but he seemed too tense. At one point he tensed up, then told me he was done. I backed off, and asked if he wanted to fuck me. He told me that he was turned off and probably wouldn’t be able to. I sat down on the couch and looked him over. we then sat and chatted and I rubbed myself for a bit. We showed each other sexy pictures of our wives, then I regretfully got dressed and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Hope to try again with him soon.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? He was hot.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We didn’t get to do nearly as much as I hoped, and he didn’t get to fuck me.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? You guys rock.
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