What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Sweden
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Two spanish women at once

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1.5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were both around 40, one of them very fit and slim, and very attractive face and intense eyes and a bit serious looking, the other one more average body, not having done much workout, but a friendly face and not as serious as her friend. We had never met before. We met in a bar. I didn’t feel especially attracted to them, although I noticed that the slim woman was attractive, I wasn’t planning for anything to happen.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in the south of Spain visiting a swinger club, and I hooked up with a British couple that I had met there a couple of days ago. They were both a couple of years older than me, but she was very well preserved, had nice curves and an amazing body. Her husband was a bit prude, and at first wasn’t willing to share his wife with me, but they went away briefly and when they returned he asked me to buy him a drink and then I he would let his wife give me a blowjob. It was one of the best bj I’ve ever had, somehow she knew how I like things to slow down when I start coming, it was amazing. I secretly fingered her during the whole time, which we both enjoyed because her husband didn’t allow it, so that made it even more exciting. I felt how much she wanted me to get inside of her, but we both had to respect her husbands will. We were all lying on a big orgie room “bed” with 5-6 other couples having sex all around us, and her husband was trying to get it on with some other women there, while still keeping his eyes on his wife. Anyway, after that bj I was very satisfied and it was about 3:30 am, so I got dressed again, headed for the bar to have something to drink. I wasn’t that busy anymore, lots of people had already left, but I noticed two nice looking women at the bar a couple of meters away from me. Suddenly some transgender person walks up between us and said something to the bartender. I looked towards those two women and one of them was looking at me and giggled (supposedly about the transgender’s comment), so I smiled back at her. I heard them talking to the bartender/owner, asking about his business and he started telling them his story. I had been talking to him quite a lot the last time I was there, so I felt comfortable leaning in, moving closer to him and the women sitting next to me. So when I approached, the woman who was giggling before just looked at me like “what are you doing?” so I excused myself, told them that they did not have to worry, I wasn’t hitting on them, I already had my fun that night, I just wanted to hear the owner’s story. I noticed she got more comfortable hearing that. We were all talking to the the owner for about 5-10 minutes, then he finished his story, and both me and the two women were about to leave, when fit one asked me where I was staying, she was driving (although she had a few drinks) and asked if I wanted them to drop me off there since it was on the way to their hotel. They told me later that they were colleagues and lived in another city 5-6 hours away, both happily married, and they had just escaped on a “girl weekend” on their own, so this was their only night out, and they would be going back home next day. So I accepted the offer, they both sat in the front, and me in the back, a little chitchat on they way, and before getting out of the car I leaned forward in between them thanking them for being so kind, and gave the “average women” a Spanish kiss on the cheek, and when I turned to the fit one I felt something in the way she looked at me, so I leaned in towards her mouth and we had a nice and passionate kiss, and I could feel myself getting hard. Well, this was it, I got out of the car, saw how they both were looking at me, I waved at them, and started walking towards the entrance to my hotel. Before entering, I turned my head, looking back at their car that was still standing where I left it, in the middle of the street, though at 4 am there was no traffic at all. I see them sitting there discussing something. That’s when I got this hunch that I should go back there, so I did. When I approached the car again, the average woman lowered the car window so I leaned in and asked them if they didn’t know how to get to their hotel? I really don’t remember much details about this part, but I think I said something like “I can help you find your hotel” (which I obviously didn’t have a clue about where it was), to which they both agreed, and I got into the car again, and we took off. We were talking about the name of their hotel, and what it looked like and so on, until the fit woman parked at a gas station and told me that their hotel was close, she knew which way to go by foot, so we parked and started walking. It was a 5-10 min walk. We just blabbered about anything, no dirty talk at all, just silly or funny comments. Finally we got to the hotel, and they were talking to each other and were worried about the concierge to notice that we were three people, and they had only paid a for two people. When I heard that, I had no more doubts about accompanying them to their room, and that gave me a self confidence burst which I think was crucial for me to be able to cope with what was coming.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We entered the room, they excused themselves for the mess, and didn’t let me enter until they had done some tidy up. I told them I’d take a shower meanwhile. When I got out of the shower I put on my clothes again, but left my shirt unbuttoned and I got from the bathroom and sat down on the bed, trying to look confident and with a seductive smile, while they were finishing what they were doing.

Then they both went into the bathroom, I could hear them whispering. I have no idea what time it was, but I noticed that the sun was about to rise, so I tried to close the curtains a bit, turned off the light from the ceiling and turned on the bed side lights, well prepared as I was, I left some condoms on the bed side table behind the lamp, got undressed, and laid down in the middle of the bed, under the sheets, waiting for them to come out. They were still dressed when they got out, but they didn’t raise an eyebrow when they saw me waiting in bed, they just both got undressed to their underwear and slipped in under the sheets, one on each side of me. I still remember that moment, when I realized what was happening.

At that point, I hadn’t had more than a few one night stands, none of which had been very satisfactory. To be honest, I wasn’t very horny up until then, the most exciting thing was the ego boost it had given me that two women brought me back to their hotel, but that changed of course when they both curled up against me, and started to caress my chest, and I put my arms around their necks. We started kissing, first with the slim one whom I’d kissed in the car, then the other one, and she was an even better kisser. Then I realized something I’d never thought of before, all those years when fantasizing about being with two women: How the hell would I be able to keep them both satisfied? This wasn’t like in the porno movies, they didn’t want to kiss each other, they weren’t bi-curious, they wanted a man, they both wanted me!

I tried my best to keep my hands busy with both of them, helping them to lose their bras. The fit woman had small and firm breasts, and I felt on her whole body that she did a lot of workout. The other was more “normal”, with bigger tits and huge nipples, which I started sucking, while the fit one started touching my dick who by now was rock hard and throbbing, and she started sucking me. Not as good as the British woman earlier, but pretty good. Maybe I still was a bit desensitized by the earlier action, which wasn’t more than a couple of hours ago, which I think was good.

My worst nightmare had always been that if I ever get the opportunity to be with more than one woman at a time, that I will blow my load early on and they will lose interest and it will all be over. So, after giving me head for a few minutes, I noticed that the fit woman wanted me inside of her, so I had to try to move away towards the bed side table and get a condom. I put it on, and she instantly jumped me and had one of the most insane and wildest rides in my life. The other woman just lay beside me and touched my chest with one hand, and I saw her touch herself with the other. I looked at her face and I remember thinking that she looked a little bit bored or left out. I wasn’t at all like in the porno movies, were all women always look horny and kiss each other, haha. So although I enjoyed this fit woman really showing off her stamina and riding faster, and more real ups and downs, not like most other women I’ve been with do, they sit down on me and start rocking back and forth, which seems to be very pleasurable for them, but not so much for me, I sometimes soften inside of them when they do. This was not a problem at that moment. I got eye contact with the fit woman after she had her first orgasm and I signaled that I was about to give her friend some attention, and I turned over to the other woman, and started kissing her to warm her up a bit, but I felt that she was already soaking wet, so I slowly penetrated her and started pounding her hard, watching her breasts and big nipples bounce.

I remember thinking that maybe I should switch condoms, but none of them seemed to bother, and I didn’t want to spoil the moment. They had both told me earlier that they were in boring monogamous relationships, so I assumed that it’ll be fine. The fit woman had lied down again beside us, watching us lazily, and I signed to her to get up to come and kiss me, although I didn’t need that, but so that she wouldn’t be bored and fall asleep, she had earlier indicated that she was very tired. But when she came up beside me and we started kissing, I noticed that the other woman (who I was pounding) wasn’t very pleased and looked like she wanted my full attention, so I turned her around and did some doggy style with her, and I tried my best to give them both my full attention, which of course wasn’t possible. After some minutes I signed to the fit one to get down on all four, and so I started fingering her a bit while still doing the other one from behind. I remember clearly the view when I pulled out and had two, in that moment, incredibly sexy women standing on all four in front of me and both wanting me to pound them hard. We didn’t talk much during the act, they didn’t moan very loud either, even when having orgasms, but enough for me to hear them, giving me an indication that they enjoyed it. So I started pounding the fit one from behind, and then I had a good look at the back I’d only felt before, it was rock hard, just above her sweet and soft (but not so wide) hips, and I thought that this woman must spend hours at the gym every day (unlike me).

She was very tight, and not so deep (I’m about average length myself), and I felt the stimulation through the condom as my tip was touching the tip of her uterus. I had become pretty insensitive and needed this stimulation to be able to finish I thought, so I gave it all. But I’m not so well trained, I had already had an orgasm that night, I was using condom (which for me is a HUGE turn off, I sometimes lose my erection after putting the condom on), it was late (or rather early, it must’ve been about 6 in the morning), so I got exhausted, and I had to stop before coming. While pounding her, the fit woman was fingering herself and had her second orgasm. She fell down flat on her stomach, grabbed a pillow, and pulled up the sheets on her side of the bed. The other one had also laid down on her side, also under the sheets. So I thought to myself, this is it. It’s over. I wanted so bad to have another orgasm, to make that experience complete. But I was soft, and desensitized. So I joined them beneath the sheets. Lying on my back between them, the fit woman was lying with her back against me, and I wasn’t sure if she had fallen asleep already or not, she needed to sleep to be able to cope with the long drive backup home in a few hours. The other woman was lying on her back with her eyes closed. I just lay there still for a while and thought I’d let them sleep, and that I might as well try to get some sleep too. But my mind wouldn’t let me, thoughts kept running around in my head, and after about 15-30 minutes the other woman was moving a bit, so I opened my eyes and looked at her, and she was looking back at me with a smile. And returned her smile with an even bigger smile. I turned towards her, started to stroking her long, beautiful black hair, and caressing her belly with the other hand. I asked if she couldn’t sleep, and we started talking for a while, she told me (not too much details) about herself and her friend, without mentioning where they lived, or their job, except that they were involved with politics. I told her a bit about myself also. And while talking, I was touching and caressing her all the time, and I noticed how I was getting hard again, so I pushed me against her leg so she would noticed, and I started fingering her completely bald pussy (the fit woman had just a small strip of well shaven pubes) and noticed that she was already pretty wet. I grabbed another condom, which luckily were on her bed side table, got on top of her, started sucking her incredible nipples that got so hard, and then I put the condom on and started pounding her slowly, so the bed wouldn’t move so much it would wake her friend, how had been snoring for quite a while now. It was complete daylight outside by now, but the curtains and the shades made it at least a but dim inside still. This time I was fully focused on her. On her pleasure. And mine. I noticed how she liked things soft and slow, so I took it real slow with her. I enjoy that to sometimes, this time I did. I went down on her, licking gently around her clitoris, and tickling it gently with my tongue, and I started fingering her, first one finger, then two fingers. She responded very well when I pressed my fingers up against the big soft spongy wall where her G-spot was, and I started massaging it softly, with a gentle sweeping outwards, just like I had learned from some instruction video on how to make women squirt. I had tried it a couple of times, but without any other result then some pretty intense orgasms. So I went for one of those.

But this woman was different, I heard and felt a squishy sound for every movement I made, and I felt her starting to quiver, her legs started shaking, but I kept on working, and all of a sudden I felt like a warm shower against my hand, just for a second, then I slowed down a bit, jerking a bit slower, and there was liquid flying around all over my hand and her thighs (and the bed). Her legs kept on shivering for a couple of minutes, and she was like totally blacked out (by pleasure), and when she came back she whispered to me “how the hell did you do that?”

I just smiled and looked at her, and I still had my condom on, and my dick who had become rock hard again during the squirting wanted some action now, so I got on top of her again, trying to pound her fast enough for me to be able to finish, but the bed was moving too much, we didn’t want to wake her friend. So I got down on the floor on my feet, told her to lean up against the bed while I pounded her from the back. While I was pounding her I felt she had another orgasm, not a squirting though, just a normal one, and a few seconds later I had my second orgasm that night (after the blowjob at the club). After that, we lay down and talked for an hour or so until she noticed that it was time for check out, so we had to wake her friend, whose first words was “I heard what you did, haha!”.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They had missed the hotel breakfast, and invited me to join them for breakfast at some restaurant in town. They checked out, and I helped them bringing their suitcases to the car that was parked at the gas station. After parking downtown when went strolling around looking for an open restaurant, but there weren’t many open at about noon that Sunday, so we had to walk a few blocks, and I felt a strong connection to both of them. When the fit woman was around (and awake) her friend didn’t talk much, maybe because the fit woman and I were talking. I instinctively grabbed the hand of the fit woman, and then thought, it’s not fair, so I grabbed her friends hand too. Me, walking around with one woman in each hand, looking for a breakfast restaurant. Kissing first one of them, then the other. Haha, must’ve looked pretty weird, although not much people were out. We small talked a bit over breakfast. None of us wanted it to end, but they had to go to get home to their husbands at a decent time. We exchanged first names. No last names, no city, nothing else that would make us able to find each other again. We had a short talk about last night, and they couldn’t have imagined this outcome in their wildest fantasies, and both told me they had never before tried anything like it, and they were overwhelmed, just like me. When we were leaving the restaurant there were a bit more people out in the streets, the slim one didn’t want to hold hans all three anymore, and when we got to their car, I had a nice long last kiss with her before she sat down behind the wheel. And then finally a shorter, but still nice and last kiss with the other woman, and after that she whispered to me “thank you”, and gave me a huge smile, before she too entered the car, and they drove away, through the roundabout, and off to the freeway, and probably out of my life forever. It was a bit sad to say goodbye, but I was so happy for having had the opportunity to have this experience with these two amazingly open minded and wonderful Spanish women.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to a female friend, who I know is very open minded, and she was enthusiastic about it, asked for details etc. She thought it was a good thing.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I think the best thing was that I got to try my (or every man’s) secret dream, being with more than one woman at the same time.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was so late, we were a bit tired, and that my partners had to leave so soon.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes, quite a lot actually. I learned a lot. The fact that we didn’t talk at all about it, we just all knew what we wanted to do, and we just went ahead and did it. No, I had learned that before, on a “single” one-night-stand. Before this, I had visited a few swinger clubs, but only had one-on-one sex. This event made me realize that there are no real boundaries for how people have sex. It’s not just in the porn movies, it’s possible even for ME. In short: it blew my mind. And it was also quite a big ego boost. I think that part was the best part. The sex was good, but not mind-blowingly good 🙂 My self confidence took a big leap upwards, and hasn’t yet come down to the level it had before, and I hope it never will. This hookup is one of the things I will remember most clearly until I die. Fully comparable to see the birth of my first kid.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I think I’ve mentioned most things, pretty detailed, about this hookup already.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Maybe it’s just me changing, but I think I can sense a bit more acceptance among women in general. Or maybe there has always been, and I was blind before. As most people also mention here, I hope that we can reach equality regarding casual sex as well. I hate slut shaming. Guys don’t understand the consequences.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Wow, it’s a great project, I saw your TED-speech and entered here just to have a look around, and got inspired to write about myself too! 🙂 Thank you so much, and wish you all the best!

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