What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 67
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Scientist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40-50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Under The Blankets At 30,000ft
How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Kay (as I later found her name to be) was quite good looking, tall, and curvaceous. At the time, she was 28, around ten years younger than me. We met by complete chance. She was seated in the business class seat next to me on the long-haul overnight flight from Singapore to Frankfurt. We had some idle chat after take off and over dinner and a glass of wine, but when the lights were dimmed, she went off to get changed for the overnight sleep and flight attendants handed out the blankets.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We adjusted the seats back to the fully reclined position and were heading off to sleep. Her hand was on the wide arm-rest between the business class seats, as was mine, our fingers only an inch or so apart. I moved my hand slightly until our fingers touched and then moved it away (as if shocked that I had made contact). A few moments later, I was surprised to find that her hand had not moved and the next faint touch resulted in no negative reaction. We had 10 hours ahead of us and I wasn’t in a rush so I (we) progressed slowly, two fingers touching, then two fingers overlapping, then fingers intertwined and, maybe ten minutes later, I started to caress and stroke her fingers, palm, and wrist, before moving further up the arm.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With still no words spoken (and the blankets restricting public view), she drew my hand across to her breast. It was soft, pliable and she had clearly removed her bra when she had changed. I slipped my hand inside her top, cupping each breast in turn and softly tweaking her nipples. She let out a soft series of moans, just audible above the drum of the engines, but enough to encourage me. After raising the arm-rest, I slid across to rest my head against her shoulder and slipped my hand under the waistband of her sweat pants and beneath the loose thong she had chosen for comfortable in-flight sleep. By the time I reached her smoothly waxed and swollen pussy, it was streaming with her juices. I flicked her clit a few times and slid one, and then two fingers deep into her vagina. In return, she reached across, released my cock from my trousers, and started to run her fingers up and down the shaft. I nuzzled against her, kissing her neck and ear while keeping up a steady sloshing beat in and out of her wet cunt for probably 30 minutes, eventually giving her 3 or 4 orgasms. For much of this time, I was close to coming but somehow managed to keep it under control while I continued to work on her pussy and clit. She signaled that it was my turn now and leaned across me, under cover of the blankets, and took my cock fully into her mouth, slurping up and down. But sadly by now, I had been aroused for over an hour and, as sometimes happens, I was now past the point of coming (and in the end, I made do with a wank in the restroom an hour or so later.)
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? In the morning, we awoke and introduced ourselves and our life stories. Her name was Kay, she was married, not happily, and she traveled often on business, but had never had an encounter like the one we had the previous night. When we left the plane, she gave me her business card. A couple of weeks later, I would find an excuse to make my way to her city for an afternoon of passion – but that’s another story.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody (till now)
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was an encounter which was controlled by our mutual pleasure and didn’t rely on the normal artificial elements of flirtatious talk or expectations.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It did me open me up to the possibility of a similar relationship during my travels – which resulted in a long and very positive affair with another German lady a few years later.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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