by Abby

Gender: Female
Age: 22
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Massachusetts
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 15-20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Unexpected And Amazing

How long ago did this hookup happen? Yesterday

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I study with him in the same department, he’s 10 years older than I am. He’s been trying to get with me for a while but we’ve just been friends up until last night.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on the couch watching a movie, and he said to me, as he has many times, “you know I think you’re so sexy, I like you so much”. For some reason, this time it worked and I started kissing him.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was amazing. I was planning on only kissing him but he was such a good kisser and touched me in all the right places. We made out for a long time and I was finally so horny that I started taking his clothes off. He started touching my boobs in a way that no one ever has before, and I was moaning like crazy at this point, just during foreplay. I kept telling him what an amazing job he was doing; he was just really surprised that any of this was happening. I love giving blowjobs so I made him even harder while sucking him. When we finally had sex, it was so satisfying and I had to moan into the pillow (thin apartment walls) because it felt so good. We started with me on top, then him on top, then him behind me, which is how we both finished.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I had an incredible orgasm in doggy style. He came a few minutes after I did. He said it was the most satisfying orgasm he’d ever had because he’d wanted to have sex with me for so long.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I’m on the BC pill, and we used a condom.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? He has been a friend for over a year, but tonight was the first night that I felt attracted to him. Once we started kissing, there was no going back for me: making out with and touching him was enough to get me extremely turned-on.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had smoked a small amount of marijuana, but no substances for him.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After, we both just lay there basking in the afterglow of climax. Again, I told him how amazing he was. I obviously knew him and liked him as a friend, but had been rejecting his advances for awhile. In one day, I realized how attracted I was to him after I started kissing him. It helped a lot that he was so into it: having sex with someone who really likes you can be very pleasurable because they’re trying their best to please you. I spent the night and loved cuddling naked with him.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anyone yet, but I was bursting to tell the story somewhere!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, it very much was. After he told me I was sexy, I started kissing him, and he let me make all the moves until we were naked and f***ing.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? The only thing I regret is not having hooked up with him earlier!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best things about this hookup were its unexpectedness, the sheer attraction and pleasure, the orgasm (of course), and sleeping over. Hmm, all in all, not a lot of negativity surrounding this, but I guess it would be the ambiguity surrounding our “status”. I’m not ready to be in a relationship right now, but I would certainly love to be fuck buddies. I have to be aware of his needs and wishes out of the situation, though.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It was the best hookup I’ve ever had, and I can’t stop thinking about this amazing sex I had.

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