What’s your gender? Man
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 13
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? A few years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Slightly chubby asian chick, around 21 years old. Kind of a nerd, she was big into video games and anime. She was kind of a tomboy and usually wore baggy t shirts and jeans. I had known her ever since elementary school. We were in the same friend circles but we were never close. I liked her enough but we would never hang out one on one.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a party across the street from her house. I was on summer break from college and hadn’t seen her in probably a year. We didnt talk much which was normal for us. I had started going to the gym since she last saw me and I caught her stealing glances at me when I took my shirt of to go in the pool. I didnt think much of it though. As the night went on she kept inviting me back to her place to try this new rum she got. I don’t really like rum and I was having a good time so I declined. She kept asking so I decided to leave the party really quick just to get her to chill out.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He parent’s house was across the street and they have this small screened in porch separate from the house, sort of like they converted their shed into a place for entertaining. I am pretty drunk at this point and somehow I don’t suspect anything, probably because she is a really old friend and I didn’t really think of her in a sexual way. She pours me a shot of this dark rum and tells me to take it. She started to take on a more assertive, aggressive persona than usual. I do and she pours me another. Then she puts her bare feet in my lap and starts rubbing my cock through my jeans. I am completely stunned and just stare at her feet. She laughs and asks if anything is wrong. I say no and sip my drink. I’m not really into feet but it was pretty hot to have this come out of nowhere. She makes a little small talk all while rubbing my dick which is fully hard at this point. Then she asks “This is sort of embarrassing, but are you clean?” I say yes. She smiles and gets out of her chair and kneels down in front of me.
It was the best blowjob I’ve ever had. She started out teasing me slowly, sucking and kissing on the head as her fingers gently stroked my shaft. I go to put my hands on her head and she instead places them in her tits, which were pretty nice. She then slowly deepthroated my whole dick down to the base. It felt incredible and I told her, she seemed to appreciate it. She started to go faster as time went on, she would deepthroat me a few times until she started gagging, then she would pull it out of her mouth and jerk me off until she was ready to go again. She also switched things up by sucking on my balls. It was straight out of a porn movie and I couldn’t believe i was doing this with her.
When I was close to cumming she popped my cock out of my mouth and said she wanted to hear me beg for it. She seemed like a totally different person and she was getting off on being dominant. After I beg her to let me cum she smiles and starts sucking again. When I started to cum she deepthroated me all the way, kneaded my balls and looked me in the eye as i shot down her throat. She licked and kissed my cock clean and remarked that my cum tasted good, like her ex. I was still stunned. I was hoping that I’d get a chance to fuck her but she mentioned that we should get back to the party.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went back to college and got a girlfriend soon after. We havent spoken much since, but I’m a little sorry that only happened once.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Submission / Relinquishing power, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. She had a boyfriend, I didnt want to admit to it since he is a good guy.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The greatest blowjob I’ve ever had, plus the spontaneity and the fact that this girl was dying to suck my dick without getting anything in return
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? the fact that she was cheating
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? no
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Its good but can spiral out of control. If you can do everything safely and without hurting anyone then go for it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it.
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