What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Netherlands
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Accountant
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Married but enjoying extramarital sex
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 21
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Keke at a party. He’s African, very good looking. He looks 21 instead of 29. He approached me at a party one night and asked for my number straight away. I actually thought he was too young, but good looking. We ended up kissing after the party, then I went home to my husband. The next day we started texting about how nice it had been to meet each other and how great the kiss was. He was really into it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a lot of texting that week we decided to meet up. Remember we have a 12 year age difference. I went over to his apartment. His roommate had gone on holiday (I’m not even commenting as I own a townhouse with my husband and kids) so we had the place to ourselves. We started making out while watching a hip hop documentary. I love pretending my life is not complicated when I hang out with young guys.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I sucked his dick since I know I’m quite good at it. I was VERY surprised to find out his dick was very small and narrow. Since he’s quite a big guy I thought his dick would be bigger. Also he hadn’t shaved. Oh well. He enjoyed me sucking and licking, was quite verbal. He said things like, “Oh my word you’re sucking the balls as well!” We took our clothes off and he was amazed by my Latina ass. How could he not have noticed earlier??? He then put on a condom and fucked me on his sofa. He fucked me from behind in front of the mirror. That was very nice and I did feel his cock, which I hadn’t really expected. I asked him to take off his socks, because there’s nothing worse than being fucked by a guy who keeps his socks on. We moved to his bedroom. I sucked him some more. We put on a new condom and fucked more in different positions. His dick was not really hard, which I have never really experienced before. So he told me the secret, his nipples need stimulation for his dick to grow harder. This turned me on so much as I love my nipples being touched and sucked. He came. I didn’t. We talked and relaxed for a while, but I was still so horny. So we started playing again and he fucked me. His small dick was still nice and I was just so turned on by this hot guy. I didn’t really cum but I did wet up the bed quite a bit with squirting. Which he thought was incredible (it had never happened to him before!)
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kissed and hugged and he almost fell asleep. I needed to go home so I left.
We’ve been texting a lot and we have met up twice since then. The second time sex was definitely better and I had a huge squirting session. He’s kind of a player, I’m sure he sees other girls which makes me jealous and sad sometimes. But hey I’m married. I would like us to keep seeing and enjoying each other. Exploring and teaching him is such a turn on,
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, Making new friends
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Two of my friends know. They were happy for me
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The connection, the attraction, the hot guy who is so much younger than me, being completely into me. Squirting!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? His dick is a bit small and doesn’t stay too hard. I need big dick in my life…
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Nope
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I hope we can continue seeing each other with minimal drama…
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy it so much!!!
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