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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Scotland
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? I currently work in Tourism
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Bisexual with a preference to women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 40 +
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 9 (some were under a different pseudonym

Unexpected Hook-Up On Campus

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met H through friends at University. She was a few years younger than me, short with brown hair and slim. I can’t remember how I met her exactly but she lived on campus and we were in the same social circles. I thought she was really hot and was curious if she might be interested in me too.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Memory falters me a little bit, as I don’t have a clear memory of everything leading up to what happened, but some context will probably help. Being a horror fan I was heavily into the TV series ‘Supernatural’ at the time and one of us must have suggested watching it back at hers because that’s what we did.

We were both watching the show in her room when I made a move to kiss her and she pulled back surprised. She asked me what I was doing and I said sorry and that I must have got the wrong end of the stick. I remember feeling very silly and then deciding it wouldn’t happen. Anyway, we finished and I went home.

A few hours later we’re messaging she says I’ve got her really worked up. I was a bit confused by this and I replied saying I thought she didn’t want to. She told me she hadn’t been expecting it but actually really liked the idea now that she was horny as hell now and invited me back to her dorm on campus. I lived in the city center at this point and usually, the campus was a ten-minute bus ride away, however that time there were hardly any buses and being the cheap student that I was I didn’t have the money for a taxi. So I did the only thing I could, I walked 40 back to campus to her dorm.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived and she opened the door in a dressing gown. Once in her room, she offered me a glass of wine which I declined. At that point, she gave me that look that you get right when you’re about to hook up, the kind of ‘Come on Then’ look. So I did.

We started kissing and our hands were roaming as we climbed onto her bed. At some point she told me she didn’t want to have sex because she had unprotected sex the week before and was waiting for the results of her check and that in the meantime she couldn’t until she had the results, but could still fool around. I wasn’t bothered by that so said cool and we got back to it.

We started undressing each other, and it wasn’t until she was naked I realized how much of an amazing body she had. Her breasts were perky, her body smooth and flat and her legs were long and feeling then entangling in mine was a massive turn on.

We were both naked at this point and she stroked my penis as I slid two fingers into her vagina. She started getting into it and was beginning to moan quite loudly. I increased the tempo while kissing her neck and breasts. She asked me if I could play with her clit. I wasn’t too confident on my clit pleasuring at that point and made up some excuse not to (crazy right?) but figured I needed to make up for it so I redoubled my efforts and used 3 fingers and it worked, bringing her to orgasm she screamed so loud I knew her flatmates could hear.

After she recovered she said it was my turn and crawled on top of me. She raised her hips moved her vagina a couple of inches above my hard penis. I thought she was about to ride me raw when she leaned down and licked my penis instead. This was the first time anyone had actually done this to me during a blowjob and it felt great. She then proceeded to give me the best blowjob I had ever had. I told her I was going to cum and she kept going, letting me cum in her mouth, which was another amazing first. She swallowed it whole after which had me amazed at the time.

After this we played a little bit of scrabble and fooled around again, this time she gave me a handjob, and went to sleep. We would have fooled around in the morning but I had to go to a society meeting so I had to shoot off.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Unfortunately, I was never able to get another hookup with H though she is still incredibly flirtatious and once referred to me (and I swear I’m not making this shit up) as ‘The Fuckmeister’, but sadly it just never happened. She moved away and we lost contact. One day when checking facebook a few years ago I realized she had unfriended me at some point.

Her STD check was fine as well as she told me shortly after she got the results. We totally could have said sex.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Not everyone I knew also knew H so it wasn’t really a big thing. Though I did find out the next year that a couple other guys I knew had also had hookups with her. Didn’t bother me, but we all did mention how wild she was.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a surprise encounter with a girl I thought didn’t like me back.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not actually having now that I know we could have. I mean we still did the right thing, I just think it would have been great.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I guess just that sometimes people can change their mind after rejecting you. I think I blindsided her before and she had never really given it any thought. I’m glad she did.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Wish we’d fucked.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Everyone should just have sex and be happy.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like this website, it’s always fun to read other people’s stories.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!