What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 3
Unexpected Hookup at 10 Year Reunion
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was about 5’6″ or so, fairly slim, small boobs but a very tight body, very short brunette hair and striking blue eyes, very much a modern new age woman almost feminist type. We went to school together and graduated in the same class but didn’t really know each other. In high school she was a year younger but advanced a grade, she was known as a prissy too good for everyone else type, and certainly wouldn’t associate with my type of people which was gear heads jocks and country boys.
A few years after graduation, I heard she had been working at some fast food joint, had an affair and got knocked up by her manager who was in his late 30s early 40s. That was a bit shocking given she was such a prudish type in high school, apparently he had money they got married and she popped out two more kids after that.
She had a hot body but a lousy personality, so I never really had interest.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Our 10yr reunion was nothing special, maybe 30 or so people came back to town and got together at a local pub, we all got to drinking and having a good time, people tried to act like things had changed but as the night progressed it was clear some things would never change as the different groups of people broke off to their own tables just like high school, there were a few exceptions though, her being one of them, she started chatting me up early in the evening as she drank her white wine, which was odd considering we barely said a word to each other during high school. I went with it because she was looking hot in a blue thigh high dress and heels, as the night went on I made the rounds chatting to different groups and started to notice her almost following me. It was late and we were talking with people at one table when they got up to go have a smoke, that left me and her alone. We started chatting some more, getting to know each other a little, she inquired about any potential girlfriends which I didn’t have, I started to notice her getting close and touching my hand then thigh, I noticed she had a ring on so I inquired about her relationship. She told me she was happily married with three kids, then she just casually adds she is in an open marriage. I was a little caught off guard by that and not sure what to say so I just asked how that came to be, she briefly explained it started when her much older husband started being unable to keep up with her highly active sex drive, uncertain how to respond I just smiled and tried to carry the conversation forward, but she had gotten a look in her eye and she cut me off with a question “Have you ever had sex in a public bathroom?” all I could respond with was a confused “What!?” she just smile and said “I’m drunk, I’m horny and it isn’t too often I get a free night, just get up and follow me” I just stared at her thinking she had to be fucking with me then I looked around, everyone else was drunk and oblivious, she got up and started walking, she motioned for me to follow so I did, we made our way to the washrooms which were down a hall in the back, she pushed me against the wall and kissed me, we made out briefly then she stuck her head in the mens washroom, with no one insight she dragged me to the large handi cap stall.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We made out some more as she undid my pants, I stopped her when I realized I didn’t have a condom, she quickly looked in her purse and said that was one of the rules to their open relationship was always wear a condom, after a brief pause she asked if I was clean, I said yes and she said fuck it, she was so horny she could make an exception. She instructed me to sit on the toilet, she dropped her thong, hiked up her dress and straddled me. She rode me so hard so we were making quite a bit of noise and I was worried we might get caught, I think the risk turned her on even more, We’d stop when we heard someone enter then get right back to it when they left, the seat was getting uncomfortable so I got up and took her doggy style over the toilet, when I warned her I was close she just begged me not to stop, I blew my load just as we heard someone enter, trying to stay quiet made the orgasm seem even more intense. Once the coast was clear we got dressed and slipped out, as she fixed her hair and makeup in the mirror she asked where I lived, I told her I was just 5 min away, she suggested spending the night could be fun, I agreed.
We snuck out of the bar, got a cab and returned to my place, after a few drinks we were naked and going at it again, we had a shower then spent the rest of the night having hot nasty sex, the last time i remember looking at a clock it was about 6am before actually going to sleep.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was surprising but I was pretty happy about it, before leaving she said if she was ever in town and had free time we should hook up again, but we live in different cities and lead very different lives so I don’t expect a repeat, but I would if opportunity presented itself.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? She was insanely horny
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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