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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 51
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dallas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Business negotiations
What’s your current relationship status? Pot and filled with passion.
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

UNEXPECTED SEXUAL LUST

How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? A instant unexpected explosion of lust

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I never looked for hookups. I was busy and they just happened when they happened. But I did always look for someone attractive, flirty and funny. My partners are usually not by my choice. They end up being substantially younger and wanting to experience an older man. They are willing to talk about their desires and listen to yours.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I owned a hotel and I had advertised my rooms for rent. We didn’t accept American Express. This girl wanted to rent four rooms for the Fourth of July weekend. I told her I could not reserve four rooms without a cash deposit since it was our busiest weekend. She agreed and we met at a restaurant bar so I could receive the deposit and cash. When I walked in the bar, three women were sitting down. One looked like she was waiting to meet somebody for business so I asked her if she wanted to reserve a room. She responded yes. There was something about her that instantly caused an embarrassing erection. It was out of control, I could hardly focus on what I had came to the bar for. We talked for 2 1/2 hours and I’m sure my lust was obvious despite my efforts to hide it. Her eyes told me she was lonely. Then the idea of a adventure became really appealing. I concluded the meeting because I had to get back to the hotel but I could not get her off my mind. I remember walking her to the car and all I could think about was how badly I wanted to raise her spirits and take her from behind right then and there.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?  The next day I just decided to text her and ask her what she was doing. She said she was getting waxed. I naïvely asked, “Oh your eyebrows?” She said, “No since you asked I’m getting my pussy waxed.” Oh my god that was an invitation. I said, “Would you like to meet for dinner tonight. Would you also like to get a room because I haven’t been able to stop thinking about fucking you.” We ended up meeting and I had to have a couple of margaritas to build up courage. Then I slid my hand between her legs rubbing gently against her thigh. She moaned and told me her husband had erectile dysfunction and that she had not been fucked in over eight years. I am not normally an aggressive or bold man. At least not enough to say what followed. I said, “Let’s fix that. Let me pay the bill. Right now I want your body.” We got to the room and without any hesitation, she dropped to her knees and started sucking my cock. After a few minutes I pulled her out off of it so I could pick her up and throw her on the bed. I started sucking her toes and kissing up her legs. When I got to her pussy, it smelled so good I sucked and licked it for what seemed like forever, swallowing her juices as soon as I could feel them in my mouth. She couldn’t take it anymore and said, “I need you to stick your cock in me right now. Take me fuck me hard.” I rolled her over and pulled her fine ass and tight pussy to my cock. I started slowly and she told me to pound her. So, I did it over and over again. Her pussy was so tight and so sweet and she was such a screamer I was on fire. I finally exploded and pulled my cock out and was still shooting cum all over her. She grab my dick and sucked it until it was hard again and we went on for hours.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now?  We dated if you wanna call it that. Basically, we met every day and fucked each other until we could barely walk. We couldn’t get enough. Ultimately I asked her if she would keep sucking my cock and fucking me all the time if we got married. She promised and she has kept her word.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We were too busy fucking in meeting each other to talk to others.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got a best friend and the very best flock of my life that has stayed that way for four years. She still blows me almost every day and I can’t wait to go down on her and stick my cock in her nightly.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I got a best friend and the very best flock of my life that has stayed that way for four years. She still blows me almost every day and I can’t wait to go down on her and stick my cock in her nightly.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? That it didn’t happen sooner

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would just like to share with people that a one night stand is easy. It’s possible to have one and have it turn into permanent lust and love. Once you get your partner committed don’t stop giving them great sex continue to explore keep it alive and hot.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It gave me a chance to share the fun in intensity I have enjoyed. I wish for everyone to find that person that will give you that first time hook up that blows your socks off for the rest of your life.

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