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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Northern Europe
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Pansexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Unexpected Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S was someone I had had a couple of hookups before, but nothing serious. She had superbly cute smile and sexy body with some of the most perfect breasts I’ve ever seen and hairy pussy. M was someone I hadn’t met before, a somewhat bohemian and artsy guy with long hair and slim body.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was a monthly meeting of local polyamorous people, which happened in a bar. When I went in, S was there, chatting with M, no other people had yet shown up so we had shared introductions between the three of us. A bit later more people showed up and there was general chatting and beer drinking and so on. After couple of hours some people made a suggestion to move to someone’s place, which most people agreed would be nice so the three of us joined them. There were couple of others I knew to be involved in swinging scene so I was kind of hoping that things would escalate in a more sexual direction.

Anyway, we went to the designated place, and had some more drinks there. A couple of people had to leave early though, and things sort of died out from there, the hostess got very drunk and wanted to go to bed so everyone else left. I then went with S and M to another bar for couple of more beers (all of this happened over many hours so we were never more than a bit tipsy) and when the bar closed we had to choose what to do. M suggested that it would be nice to sleep together (in a non-sexual wording) and since he lived further away and S had smaller bed than me and my place was available, I invited them there.

Since the very start of the evening there had been some sexual tension in the air, but we kept up the pretense that nothing sexual was going to happen until we were all in my bed, naked, under the covers with lights off.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The groping and grinding started almost immediately and very soon there were hands all over as S was sandwiched between me and M. Things are a bit fuzzy from here on, but at some point we had to find condoms so I got out of the bed and put lights back on, and searched for the rubbers. I then put a one on, and started to fuck S in pussy in missionary position while she stroked M’s cock.

After a while S got on her knees to suck M’s cock while I fucked her from behind. This went on for a good while, and next S expressed the desire to sit on my face, to which I eagerly accepted. I’m not sure exactly what M did meanwhile (they were at least kissing) because I was busy eating her out, but after a while she wanted to lie back down. She then started to suck on M’s cock again and quite soon M came into her mouth. Then M started to finger her, and though she expressed doubts, M was able to make her orgasm, while I jerked off until I came, watching them.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After everyone had came, we went to clean up and back to bed. This was pretty late, almost morning already, so we woke up quite late. Then we ate breakfast and talked a bit about last night, then they went on their way.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The buildup with hopes and expectations, which ended in very satisfying conclusion.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup?

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, I’ve been having casual sex regularly both before and after this hookup.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s something that should happen a lot more and especially much more openly in our society. Sex is great way to experience pleasure and there should be no negative stigma on anyone who enjoys sex, whether it’s casual hookups or only with a committed partner.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great project, I only hope there would be more stories and more variance in the stories.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!