What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 29
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Pleasurable
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 22
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Unexpected Wedding Hookup
How long ago did this hookup happen? One month ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Mikey is the epitome of tall, dark, and handsome with a deep baritone voice. He’s 6’6″, slim, fit, athletic, with a great smile and just an all around nice personality. I’ve known him for at least six years because the sport we play has a very tight-knit community, and so I’d see him at various tournaments. I always thought he was attractive and never really thought of him in that way sexually because we were always friendly with each other.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was attending our very good friends’ wedding in a very fancy venue. The food was the great and there was open bar for four hours. After the ceremony and reception, the couple had an “after party” in another room in the same venue. We had seen each other and talked throughout the night here and there, but it was at the after party where Mikey started paying a lot more attention to me and flirting with me. He asked me where I was staying that night, and I told him I got a very cheap hotel just for the night. He reminisced about how he used to stay there before tournaments at the beach town where the wedding was taking place and him and his college buddies used to have crazy nights there. Now he works in that same town, and he has an apartment in downtown. He said that I should have told him I needed a place to stay and that I could have stayed with him and that I should just stay with him for that night.
I took the hint and informed my friend that I was leaving just as he was leaving with a couple of his friends. I told them that I really wanted to smoke but also hang out with them, but really I wanted to see where this would lead. We drove back to his apartment and smoked some weed. After changing into more comfortable clothes, Mikey sat right next to me on his couch and I cuddled up next to him while we watched baseball. He started to caress my legs and mind you, I’m still in my dress from the wedding so I kept having to hike my dress down. He placed a blanket over us and continued touching my leg and reaching up a little higher.
At this point, I’m really high and when I get high, everything around me feels good. Music, touching, and more. The game we were watching wasn’t ending any time soon. They were in the 13th inning and tied, so I told Mikey that I was ready for bed. He told me that he would get up to go to his room, and that I should follow him after he gets in. I told him I had to go to the bathroom first so it would look like I was going to the bathroom because his two friends were still in the living room. Mikey’s apartment was very condensed and the living room was right next to his room. When Mikey left to go to his room, I just thought fuck it, I’m just gonna go to his room first and then the bathroom. I didn’t really care at that point if his friends knew what was happening or not. I told them good night and went off to Mikey’s room.
Inside the room, Mikey asked me if I wanted more comfortable clothes so he supplied me with a shirt and shorts which I gladly changed into. He went to the bathroom and I made myself more comfortable on his bed. I laid down to rest my eyes while I waited for him to come back.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When Mikey came back into the room, he started getting ready for bed. He got into bed and under the covers with me and we started to cuddle and kiss. He reached down into my shorts and started to touch my pussy. I was so wet and horny. He started to finger me in and out at a delicious pace as we were kissing. I started to convulse and cum around his fingers. I took off the shorts and my shirt and he laid me on my back and moved his mouth down my body until he came to my lips. His mouth was just as talented as his fingers, moving back and forth, sucking and kissing my clit until I came again and again. I’m multi-orgasmic and even more so when I smoke because I just like to feel good and let go, so if someone is talented with their fingers and mouth, I will let many orgasms wash over me over and over again.
I thought it was time to start paying attention to him and his cock, so I got him on his back, climbed on top of him and kissed his lips that were just on my pussy, tasting myself. I took off his shirt and moved my way down his chest and chiseled abs and pulled his shorts down. I love giving head. Hearing him moan and lose control is the biggest turn on. I started off sucking his head and licking one side of his cock up and down. I gradually moved my way around his entire cock before taking him entirely into my mouth all the way into the back of my throat. I started to move my head up and down faster and faster, and then slowing down again before he could cum, teasing him. He somehow got me on my back again and started to finger me. He was so good with his fingers, I couldn’t help but cum again.
Mikey moved his way back up to my lips to kiss me and asked if I wanted to have sex. I consented quite enthusiastically. He threw my legs over his shoulders and lined himself up and started to thrust in and out. This is my all time favorite position, and it felt so good to have him inside me, my pussy couldn’t stop clenching. Then I got on all fours and we doggy-styled for a while. I love this position, too because both partners can control the pleasurable tempo. Next he wanted me to ride him, so he got on his back and I climbed on top of him and sat on his cock. I started a good rhythm going in and out, but he quickly took control and started to move my body forward and backward, hitting my g-spot just right. I love when men take control of me. It’s such a turn on. I turned myself around while he was still inside me to reverse cowgirl and rode him until he couldn’t take it anymore. He withdrew and came on my back.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, we cleaned ourselves up and went to sleep. I woke up the next morning and he was spooning me and reaching around to my pussy with his fingers. I was so wet, but I thought I’d get him ready with a blowjob. He ended up cumming very quickly, and said so much for that, so that was disappointing. I was ready for round 2.
It seemed like he was ready to go about his day, and I didn’t really want to be a nuisance so I offered to grab myself an Uber back to my hotel. I started to put my dress back on and he was getting ready, too. He said that he would drive my back to my hotel and grab a coffee for his two friends.
I was pleasantly surprised about the entire hookup. I have no expectations or hopes for the future with Mikey, but I’m glad it happened. I was supposed to hook up with someone else at my hotel, but that person had to cancel, so I wasn’t expecting anything to happen with anyone that night. Also I got to know Mikey a little bit better, and he’s actually a really good person to his friends. The friend that drove us back to his apartment wanted to leave to go home, but he had smoked quite a bit. I myself would have been too impaired to drive. Mikey convinced him that he should just stay the night and he would even make a comfortable sleeping area for him in the living room just so he’d stay.
After he drove me back to my hotel, I gave him a hug and a smile and thanked him for everything. I shot him a DM later on to thank him for the fun night again and he replied back saying it was super fun. I wouldn’t mind if it happened again. 🙂
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, IUD (Intrauterine device)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few friends who were and weren’t surprised I hooked up with someone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? His magical fingers.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We didn’t go for round 2.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really. I’m in a phase in my life where I would love to be in a relationship, but I don’t actually want to deal with answering to another person. Maybe if the right person came into my life, but right now, casual sex satisfies the wants and needs of my more primal needs.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Being high makes hookups 100X more fun. 🙂
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As long as both parties understand that it’s just casual sex and nothing more, I think people should be more open to it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This has been an awesome site to know that I’m not alone in these experiences.
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