by Charlie



Gender: Female
Age: 23
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 18
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


Unexpectedly Awesome!


How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends with Benefits

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? “Jack” is tall, dark & handsome – such a cliche but so true! We’ve known each other for years, but only as friends & never felt like either of us wanted anything more than that

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? At a friends birthday birthday, it was fairly steady but a cheap bar & the drinks flowed throughout the night. No planning involved – a group of us were dancing, next thing I know he’s kissing me. Totally out of the blue, & the chemistry that was suddenly between us was unreal

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After a few more drinks we ended up back at his, we go upstairs & he’s got my dress off before we even make it to his room. We start off 69ing, he likes the stubble look & the tickliness of it drove me wild. He came fairly quickly in my mouth, but was rock hard again within minutes. We start having missionary sex but fairly soon we got more adventurous & kinkier – hair-pulling, biting, spanking, mild choking, he had this weird thing going on with his voice too which was an awful lot like him roaring in my ear, very caveman-like but actually oh-so-sexy too, & the combination of all the above meant I’ve never been so turned on. After a good hour of various different positions, it ended with him fucking me hard from behind (a position I’ve never previously enjoyed) whilst yanking my hair & growling in my ear. I came then he did, all over my ass

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Both of us did, both of us were physically shaking as we came so it was very intense

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I take birth control, & we used condoms

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? That first kiss literally blew my mind

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? We’d both had a lot of alcohol, I’d probably had at least a couple of bottles of wine & he’d probably had 10 pints before we started on the shorts

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I stayed over, next morning we went at it again then took a shower & he took me home. The whole way home we just chatted shit like we’ve always done & it didn’t feel any different to our previous friendship. I think I was in a bit if a state of shock – I sure as hell hadn’t expected sex like THAT with HIM! Now we hook up fairly regularly & it’s still awesome. I still feel like we’re friends, & I’m not sure that it’ll ever be more than that

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my girlfriends & they were shocked – they never could have imagined me & him ever happening. I didn’t go into detail, but made it pretty clear how good it was. I’m close friends with a few of his mates so inevitably they found out, & they were as surprised as the girls were

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Definitely, for both of us

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I don’t, that first night has led me to learn so much about myself sexually

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was definitely the spontaneity of it, & how good it was. The worst thing is that I doubt I’m ever going to find anyone else I connect with in such an animalistic way,  & I think he feels the same. We’ve both had hook ups with other people since that first time but just seem to end up back with each other

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? I’m glad it happened – we’re very comfortable together & I think it’s made us both more sexually confident. In addition, it hasn’t affected our friendship at all – we’re still the same when we’re around each other as we were before, just now we’re often led in bed as opposed to chatting in the pub!

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