What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity?
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Canada
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Around 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Micky was a beautiful blonde girl. She had a slim body, beautiful blonde hair, medium breasts, a great ass, and a pretty face. I was walking on campus and told her she was pretty. I had just graduated. We made some small talk and I told her it would be great to hang out sometime. We exchanged numbers.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After, we texted for a few days. Slowly the texting turned into discussing sexual turn-ons, etc. Before the conversation got too spicy, I asked her to come over and to discuss all this in person. We fixed a movie date for her to come over to my place.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
She came over to my place. Luckily, my roommates were not in the apartment. We sat on the bed and began to search for a good movie to watch. I decided to touch her hand as she was sitting next to me. She felt me touch her hand and looked at me. I massaged her shoulders and neck. She had such soft skin and smelt amazing. We kissed, and I enjoyed feeling her tongue and lips. I took her top off.
Next, we moved from the bed to the wall. I pushed her to the wall, her back facing me. I pulled her hair and slapped her ass with her jeans still on. She moaned. I licked the back of her neck and sucked on her skin. I unbuttoned her jeans and took them off to see her in sexy red panties. I massaged her vagina by working my fingers over her underwear. I kept doing this while her pussy got wetter and made her underwear wet too. My other hand was pinning her against the wall while she moaned. I took her bra off and squeezed her boobs. We got on the bed, and she took my t-shirt off. Then I got off the bed and stood up. She unbuttoned my jeans and pulled them down. I stood there in just my underwear.
I got back into bed, took her panties off, and threw them. We felt our bodies naked and kissed passionately and fiercely. I kissed her neck and then made my way to her breasts and sucked on them. I put my middle finger in her mouth while I sucked her nipples. Next I fingered her and tasted her pussy. Then, she began to suck my cock. I pushed her head down deeper and I could tell she loved being dominated. I stood up on the bed and she gave me head as I shoved my cock into her mouth.
Once all this was done, I fucked her missionary style and she was loving it. She moaned really loudly and I had to cover her mouth with my hand so that in case the roommates were home, they wouldn’t hear. Also, my mom was visiting me and she was in the other room. I told my mom a friend was coming over. So I had to make sure this girl’s moans were silenced.
Next, I did her doggy style and we fucked away with my hands covering her mouth.
She came twice. I took my penis out and asked her if I could cum in her mouth. She said, “cum all over me,” sounding so hot and sexual. She lied down on her back. I went to the other side of the bed and asked her to pull herself to the edge. I stood at the edge of the bed with my penis on top of her mouth. She took her tongue out and made her mouth wide open for me. I jerked off a bit and then came heavily into her mouth and fucked her mouth a bit. I slapped my cock on her tongue. She took all my sperm and had a smile on her face.
After, we cuddled for a bit and just relaxed. I was getting hard again. I fingered her and made her cum. Then, I asked her to suck my cock. She deep throated me and took me all the way in. She was moaning and gagging. I was pushing her head down. She would come back up and take a breath and go down again. Finally, I came in her mouth again.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We got dressed, cleaned up, and I walked her down to her car. We sat down outside for a bit and just chilled. She loved it. She told me she didn’t expect to chill with me and that I seemed like an even cooler person now. I really enjoyed having sex with her.
Since we both had such a good time, I wanted to maybe date her and have her as a girlfriend.
I met up with her for a second time and she stripped in front of me within seconds. But she told me she was seeing another dude right after me. This really turned me off as we both had a great time with each other and I wanted to be exclusive with her. After this, things went sour and we stopped keeping in touch. I messaged her two years later and she told me she’s seeing someone seriously now and that she wasn’t in a good place in her life when we hooked up. She said she can’t text me anymore cause she’s in a relationship. I told her we could maybe be friends. When I look back it was one of the hottest sex experiences I’ve ever had in my life!
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Maybe my mom… she heard me. Don’t remember well.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? Because I still think about the sex. I wish it could have led to more.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sex. The spontaneity. It’s one of my best memories for sex and if I ever need to masturbate…
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it was only once and didn’t lead anywhere.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel casual sex is great if you don’t develop any emotions. But, it’s always better to have a relationship as it’s more fulfilling. 🙂
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? The girl was a writer. From my
Experiences creative women are super horny, good in bed, and kinky 😉
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s been a lot of fun but it’s also been painful because I don’t think I can handle sex casually. I always want more if I have had sex with the person.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great for reading sexy stories.
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