What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? US
Highest education received: High school diploma
What’s your occupation? Ex-Military
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Used and Abused MM
How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Let’s call him Jose. He was 6′ and not built but skinny. Pulled back, mid neck length, brown hair. He had blue eyes. I couldn’t really tell exactly how big he was but I would have to say 6″ not very girthy. I didn’t know him at all but I had seen him looking at me once or twice from the dance floor.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well, it started out when I was on deployment and we happened to hit port for my 21st birthday. My friends wanted to take me out and after 4 hours of drinking, we decided to go to this club to see what all the rep was in European Clubs. I was already pretty drunk by that point but sober enough to get around. There was plenty of dancing and EVERYTHING else going around. After I danced with 3 or 4 girls that got nowhere I went to the bar and started drinking. After about an hour, I lost track of where anyone was and was about to go smoke when I heard the bartender say that someone ordered me a drink. So I looked over and see this guy (Jose) waving. I just waved and turned around thinking nothing of it being honest. Well, whatever was in there was the nail in the coffin and I rushed to the bathroom to spill my guts. Afterwards, I went out the back door to the alley to go smoke and call my friends to go home. I couldn’t see 1 foot in front of me and barely could walk. Lucky there was no one out there and was somewhat dark. Half way threw my cig I felt the need to throw up again and turned around putting my head on the wall.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well after I slowly drift off into semi-consciousness I feel him. He doesn’t say a word the whole time. I was too far gone to stop him but I guess at the time a big part of me didn’t care. He rips my pants down leaving me naked from the waist down. He pushes me hard against the wall as he pushes his lubed (How it got out and lubed I will never know) dick into my ass. He wasn’t gentle or nice. I could tell afterwards this was all for him and I was just a whole to be filled. He grabbed my head and kept drilling into my ass. It hurt being it my first time but being drunk and high took the pain away quickly. After 5 min he pulled my ass back so I was on all fours. He proceeded to somehow go faster and harder the before. He kept on pulling my head back by my hair and thrusting his cock in my ass. About 20 min later, I feel him speed up, expand, and cum deeply in my ass. I just fall down and pass out. About 1 hour later I feel him wake me up and drag me to his car. He tells me he’s going to drive me to my base and drop me off (How he found out I was military I still have no clue). So he helps me to his car and we haven’t said a word since. I’m coming back down and even though I’m conscious, I’m still way too drunk. He gets in after he puts me in the passenger seat but before he even starts the car I start drifting off. Next thing I know he’s pulling my head down to his lap, which has his tan dick wide open. At this point, I know what he wants and just give it to him for the sake of going home since everyone else ditched me. I open my mouth and he starts up the car and drives away. I slowly start giving him my first blowjob, after a while, he puts his hand on my head and starts thrusting in my mouth making me deep throat it. I feel him grunt and moan as he fucks my mouth, then slowly I feel his seed spill into my mouth. I kind of just fall asleep after that with my mouth around his still hard dick. He wakes me up when we arrive there, but he is in the way back of the parking a lot and I had a hint of what he wanted. So he pushes me out, bends me over the back of his car, and fucks my ass again. This lasts for bout 20 min before he pulls out quickly and forcing me on my knees. Then I feel him grab my head and shoot in the back of my throat again. He cleans me up and sends me on my way.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Well needless to say I never saw him again. Next day I was in real pain I could barely sit down. I thought about it for a while and decided that It wouldn’t happen again because at the was fun it just wasn’t my forte. Would I go back and change it if I could? Hell no, it was fun and I loved it that night. But I wouldn’t do it again because I wouldn’t be that lucky coming out of it with no STDs or anything.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one besides you readers know.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Was fun being taken and used like that. Felt good when he shot inside my mouth and ass.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Hurt like hell the next day
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Only that I’m no longer Bi-Curious and fully straight now.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Protect your drinks people!!!!!!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Not at all, I honestly think that there is too much “I have to be settled down early” I see so many people hook up, marry, and have a kid (not in that order) by their late teens early 20’s and then by your mid-late 20’s they are divorced. People are missing out on the fun that is your 20’s and then when they marry. They find it’s too late and one of them ends up cheating. So cool your jets, If it happens it happens. You don’t always need to be with someone.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it
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