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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? Black
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Who knows…
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

Vacation Fling With a Brazilian Yogi

How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 days ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This happened on the same vacation from my story about the German guy. My first stop on my solo Europe trip was a city in Spain. This was the first hostel I’d ever stayed at, and I was surprised at first that this particular hostel had such a hippie vibe, from the decor to the staff and daily activities. However, I quickly grew to love it.

I arrived a bit before check-in time and my bed wasn’t ready yet, so I was advised to go up to the rooftop terrace to chill out while my bed was being prepared. The rooftop was decorated with plants, colorful blankets, and a fridge for drinks. There was a large table with benches and cushions surrounding it, and I took a seat and began talking to 3-4 other guests that were already there. In a few minutes, a man and woman climbed down from a ladder in a corner that I hadn’t noticed before. They joined us and rolled up a spliff. They were the only ones smoking weed, while everyone else was smoking rolled cigarettes. I complimented the woman on her outfit and she responded relatively coldly. The man had tanned skin, long-ish brown hair to his neck, with the sides cut lower than the center, and a thin mustache and goatee. He was tall and slender and wore shorts cut off above the knee, showcasing his leg tattoos. Normally I’m not into tats, but his were unique and impressive. He also wore a fedora hat. His name was “Felipe,” he was 33, Brazilian by origin, and spoke with a thick accent. His English was spoken slowly, as though he had to think about almost every word before he said it. He was funny and his conversation was intriguing; his broken English combined with his wisdom and outlook on life made us listen intently. His belief system seemed to lean towards Rastafarianism; he often expressed his disdain for organized religion, and his affinity for the environment and marijuana. Although our opinions on certain issues differed, I respected the way he expressed himself. I later learned that the ladder in the corner led up to Felipe’s eco-friendly home, which he had built himself on the top of the hostel!

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a day or two of me being there, Felipe expressed his attraction to me, saying he liked my complexion, braids, and body. He referred to me once as a “beautiful black queen.”

By that point, my new friends and I were in the habit of smoking weed daily, with Felipe supplying us (he had a medical card). He was very involved with the guests and led us on certain activities. One night, he taught a sangria-making class in the basement for all the guests. While he demonstrated how to mix ingredients, he explained the technique in an overtly sexual manner. He used words such as “firmly, gently, slowly” while moving his mixing utensil in a sensual way. All the women in the room blushed and giggled. After that class, one of my new girlfriends (who knew he had an interest in me) told me that I HAVE to sleep with him and tell her how it was. She assumed that he was this amazing lover, and I believed it too. So I did sleep with him later that night, and the best way to describe the sex was “intense.”

I left Spain to visit a couple other countries before I returned a week later since I had to fly home from there. Felipe was elated to see me again, and we had sex 2-3 times during my two days there…basically every chance we got when he wasn’t busy working. He wanted me to orgasm, but I knew I could only do that with a vibrator, so I decided before we had sex for the last time, to buy a vibrator from a nearby sex shop (I needed a new one anyway). I was super horny that day with anticipation, and watched porn without masturbating in the hours leading up to it.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I informed Felipe of my new purchase and he told me to come up to his house at dinner time so we could eat, then have sex. The hostel has dinner together each night, so I brought two plates (and my vibrator) up to the rooftop. I passed the plates up to Felipe before I climbed the ladder. Upstairs we ate, then shared a spliff. I took off my top and bra while we ate in order to satisfy my exhibitionist side, and Felipe promptly leaned over to suck my nipples. After he finished eating, he grabbed a towel, put on his bathrobe and went downstairs to shower. I finished the spliff and went inside his house to wait for his return. His wooden house consisted of a large bed on the floor and not much else. There was minor decor surrounding the bed, but it was usually dark in there so I couldn’t see the details that well. He had a mini laptop on that was always playing soothing, international music.

When Felipe returned, I was completely undressed and seated on the bed. He removed his robe to reveal his heavily tattooed body and nicely sized penis (that he wasn’t afraid to expose on the nudist-optional beach), then joined me on the bed and began to suck each of my nipples again. He then laid me on my back, spread my legs, and eagerly ate my pussy. He laid on his side, propped up by an elbow while doing this. He seemed very comfortable, as though eating pussy was something he thoroughly enjoyed. He used his fingers and tongue to please me, and he remained down there for a good length of time.

When he finally got up, he knelt over my torso so that his dick was in front of my face. He let his dick brush over my face from side to side at first. It felt vulgar, like we were in a porno or something, but I enjoyed it. Then I lifted my head and began to take a little bit of his dick in my mouth at a time. I can’t really deepthroat, and he repeatedly tried to push his dick further into my mouth, with me slightly gagging as the response. So I finally relaxed my head and allowed him to slowly pump his dick into my mouth. He seemed to enjoy this a great deal, as he moaned throughout. Eventually the majority of his dick was in my mouth. I cupped his balls and pushed them toward my mouth so that I could feel them touching my lower lip. At the same time I swirled my tongue around his dick, while Felipe remained still with his dick resting in my mouth. Eventually he asked, “Where’s your vibrator?” so I retrieved it and got back in the same position as before. I used the vibrator while sucking his dick and when the orgasm hit, I stopped sucking and gasped as the waves washed over me.

He loved this and we switched positions, with him leaning back on the bed. I got on my hands and knees so that my tits were hanging over his erect dick, since in our previous sessions he loved playing with them. Felipe touched my nipple with the tip of his dick and shook it back and forth so that my breast jiggled. He did this for a while with each breast, and I looked down and watched, as it turned me on as well.

Eventually I asked him to fuck me, so we began in missionary. Felipe was always very intense, stroking in a steady rhythm so that his dick went as deep as possible with each stroke. He watched my face as it reacted to the painful pleasure, and lowered to kiss me at times. His kisses were the only thing that seemed selfish about him, as they were too eager for my taste. He would plant his lips firmly on mine, essentially pinning my head in place, while his tongue roamed my mouth for as long as he pleased.

Felipe said he wanted me to cum again, so I told him I wanted him to fuck me from the side so that I could have easier access to my clit. He was willing to get in whatever position was best for me. I retrieved my vibrator again, but this time was much more difficult since my clit was already engorged and almost hyperstimulated. I tried to imagine different things and stimulate different areas of my clit, and Felipe at one point said, “Concentraaate,” which was funny to me. I was impressed by his stamina; he said he wanted us to cum at the same time. After 10-15 minutes, I finally felt the plateau and my eyes rolled back. Then the convulsions came as I curled up into a fetal position. Felipe groped my body as I came, then flipped me over onto my stomach. He said doggy was the easiest position for him to orgasm, and he warned me to “Bee strooong” since he’d be going deep. So I braced myself as he stroked deeply while pinning my body down. He came with his dick still in me, complete with moaning and twitching toward the end.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Felipe was happy that I’d had two orgasms. I thanked him, being that this was the first time I’d had multiple orgasms during intercourse (vibrator or not), and he smiled and kissed me. I descended the ladder and rushed back to my room to shower and get dressed to go out to party with the other guests.

My flight back home was the next morning, and I tried coming up to Felipe’s house to say goodbye, but his large wooden door was locked, and I didn’t think he’d wake up if I were to knock and yell since he’s a heavy sleeper. So I left, and in the airport I texted him a short paragraph thanking him for my entire experience there and complimenting his personality and spirit. He responded, lamenting that I wasn’t able to say goodbye in person, and saying that I was beautiful and that hopefully we can see each other again in the future.

We’re friends on Facebook, but Felipe is very popular with the majority of the hostel guests that come and go, as well as within his acro yoga community. I’m sure he gets laid often, but I like how he made me feel. Being in his presence was always pleasant, and it came with perks such as weed, beach trips, and an introduction to acro yoga. I’ll think of him fondly for a long time.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to my female roommates at the hostel about the first time Felipe and I hooked up, since they eagerly asked me about it as soon as we woke up the next morning. They didn’t judge, as they each had their own hookups at the hostel as well. However, one of the girls (the one who urged me to sleep with him in the first place) was attracted to Felipe as well and actually flirted with him in front of my face in the days after our first hookup. Of course Felipe went along with it because he’s a natural flirt and friendly with everyone, but I thought it was disrespectful on her part. Later I asked Felipe whether he would hook up with her, and he said he thinks they’re better as friends.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The fact that Felipe is one of the most “different” type of people (in regard to personality, beliefs, conversation, hobbies, appearance) I’ve ever had the pleasure of knowing, let alone hooking up with. Also that he cared so much about my orgasm and was a giving lover.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The kissing was too intense for me, and wasn’t really reciprocal.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Like I mentioned in my previous vacation fling story, I’m more open to casual sex during travel since it’s a truly temporary situation, and I’m unknown in other parts of the world.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I’m still figuring that out…

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it, but many of the stories are lacking details that I’d like to read!

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!