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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Industrial Sales
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Vegas Encounter

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? i was in Las Vegas after a two day business conference. My friend from the office who I will call Jill was with me. We had an extra night before our flights home so went to a bar in Las Vegas inside one of the hotels. There, girls are encouraged to dance on the bar, and after a few rounds we did. It was a terrific experience. Anyways, after Jill headed back to her room as her flight was earlier than mine. I had started chatting with a guy who was watching me dance on the bar top. He was older and a distinguished looking 51. He invited me back to his room, which is something I never considered during my 17 years of marriage to my husband who was back home. I had some sexual experiences in college, but nothing much to speak of and certainly had never cheated. David was a tall man, very much a gentlemen and I was glad to have met him on this particular evening, so I figured I would see where it goes. Salt and pepper hair, about 6-2, and slim build. He had a terrific and warm smile.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? From the bar we went to his hotel room and had another drink. He checked his phone a few times, he was a business man in town for some golf and R&R. He was married. After about 20 minutes we started kissing. It was the first time since being married that I had done that with another man.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Within minutes of kissing deeply I found myself completely naked in front of him, realizing he was still in his dress shirt and slacks. Seemingly unfair, i unzipped his pants, took out his cock (7 inches and thick) and started sucking him. He was on the edge of the bed, i was on my knees between his legs. Then the door opened in the room and 3 guys, all his age, walked into the room. I stayed in place but paused, looking at him. He stated these were his golf buddies and he hoped I did not mind. My heart began racing, finding myself naked before 4 essential strangers with my family at home. I answered him with a bit of a grin and immediately started to again suck his cock. At that point I felt a hand in my crack stroking my ass and pussy lips. I looked back to find 3 complete strangers looking at my ass and reaching out to touch me. Looking for approval from me, I left David’s cock in my mouth and arched my back thrusting my ass up into the air for them to explore. I was quickly in a MMMMF. 3 of the men penetrated me vaginally, one did so twice. One of the men just wanted oral from me. While one guy fingered my asshole, there was no anal performed. It was a fantastic experience and each man was a gentleman. It ended with two cumshaws inside me, and 3 or 4 cumshaws in my mouth and on my face. After about 90 minutes, the men left and David and I spent together the entire evening until my flight home the following afternoon.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I loved my experience with David and his friends but probably won’t see them again as we are from different cities.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more desirable, I was feeling lonely, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The length of time of receiving pleasure was terrific.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It occurred behind my family’s back.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I would do it again.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? My thoughts on casual sex have changed. I am more open to it both for myself and others based on this experience.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Nice.

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