What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Leadership
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? My wife and I really like the group sex idea, and love to be together just us.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 100ish
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last weekend
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My wife and I actually talked a lot about what we of us were into and where we wanted to set boundaries before we went out of town that weekend. We were having a great time the first night and had agreed that the first time we would draw the line at her kissing, touching, and doing oral with another man if we both were into the person we found. We were in a bar and he had been checking my wife out from across the room. It was important for me to know she was picking the guy. In my mind, the turn-on is her being really into the whole thing. We finally found someone that we were both into that looked approachable.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We agreed that I would go over and talk to him and if I liked him I would suggest that he talk to my wife and go to the bathroom to give them a chance to talk without me hovering. I wanted to make him feel comfortable. So I went over and introduced myself, we made small talk and he turned out to be nice. Then I said, “hey man, do you see that girl over there?” He said, “yeah, is that your wife? I said yes, do you think she is good looking? He said yes and I said, “ Well, I’ve got to use the restroom, but I think you should go talk to her.” So I got up and went to the bathroom when I returned he was at our table. My wife informed me that she had spoken with him about what we were looking for, and the boundaries. I talked with him about it too and we all agreed it would be fun to do the double blow job thing.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end?
We then left that bar and went up to our room. I offered to fix us drinks, which we all thought was a good idea, and had all been drinking a good bit anyway. So as we are all drinking we are all talking and laughing, him and I both were saying how hot my wife was. She started to touch me on my chest, and then touched his chest and then she leaned in and he started full on making out with my wife inches away from me. I got a tingling sensation all over my body and to the tip of my cock. She then grabbed my shirt and deeply made out with me, we both started rubbing on her and I could feel my cock throbbing and see his bulging in his pants as she panted and rubbed and switched back and forth between our mouths. She then went to her knees and kept rubbing us both through our pants, she then started to undo his jeans and reached down in his pants to rub his cock. He helped her by pulling out his cock, and she started licking it up and down, and rubbing me through my jeans. It didn’t take long before she had that big cock in her mouth moaning and slobbering all over it, tugging at my pants. I helped her get my cock out of my jeans, and she was jerking me off and continued to swallow that other cock. She pulled it out and slapped it against her tongue, and asked him if he liked her mouth. He said, “fuck yes”, and then she took my cock into her throat and sucked me almost all the way down. I was so fucking hard it felt like the head would burst. We then had her switching back and forth telling her she was a dirty little cumslut and she was looking up seductively, telling us she loved to swallow cum. She sucked his balls next and told him she loved the way his balls tasted and wanted all the cum he had in his balls in her slut mouth and did the same for mine, it was really fucking hot. Anyway, this went on for what seemed like 30-40 minutes until she was sucking his cock pretty fast and vigorous and he let out a moan and said he was going to cum, and she pulled back and opened her mouth like it was scripted or something and he jerked off into her open mouth and all over her face. She swirled his cum around and looked at me and said, “Baby, his cum tastes too good”, and swallowed it all. Taking her finger and scrapping what was left into her mouth. She sucked us both for about 20 more minutes, I had whiskey dick and couldn’t cum. I know we both wanted to fuck her but because she and I agreed sober to draw the line I didn’t want to change it now that we were drunk. After that, we all said what a good time it was, said our goodbyes, and he left.
After that, she and I literally attacked each other, I could still smell his cum on her face. She told me she wanted me to fuck her, and I did fuck her for about an hour or more after that both of us talking about what a little cumslut she was and how much we both enjoyed watching another man enjoy how good she sucks cock and watching her swallow his load. Awesome night, and awesome experience. We looked at the clock and it was 5:30AM, tired AF, we passed out.
The next morning we get up and are literally reeling from what happened. I asked her if she would be open to letting him and I fuck her. She and I talked all about it and made sure that we were both comfortable and set some boundaries but in the end, we both agreed that he was very cool and that based on the fact that he was into it, we were both down. I remembered that he and I exchanged numbers and so I just texted him that we had a good time, he immediately hit me back that he did too, and I asked him if he was down to hang out again later that night and perhaps take it farther. He said absolutely.
My wife and I went out for the evening and did the normal couple thing, both of us super excited for the possibility of the night. After a great night we went out for some drinks at a bar to get both of us loose, we had a great deep discussion about our relationship and what we were both comfortable with and where we wanted to take things (during the afternoon we went to the store to purchase lingerie and condoms). After we both felt good I text him and asked him to meet us at the same bar from the night before which he did. We had a few drinks before my wife whispered to me that she was so wet and so excited that she could fuck us both right there. I asked if they were ready to go to our room and they both said yes. We got to the room and were all talking. I kissed my wife to break the ice and then said I was going to go grab some ice down the hall for drinks. This was another fantasy that she and I discussed previously, when I came back in they were making out and rubbing all over each other. I quickly poured some drinks, and came over and she and I started making out and J and I started rubbing all over her. She was wearing a dress, and we were both rubbing her pussy, and ass, switching back and forth between that and her extremely large breasts. She was moaning and switching back and forth between us and sliding her tongue in each of our mouths and one hand on each cock through our jeans. We moved over to the window, she dropped to her knees and was rubbing both of us through our jeans. She undid mine, and pulled out my cock and immediately started sucking the head of my cock while he watched. She took all of my cock to her throat, and then moved down to my balls, telling me how good they taste. He pulled out his cock and she immediately started sucking him the same as she did me. Then she pulled us both close to her mouth and holding one in each hand switching back and forth between the heads licking each one and slurping on them. then she backed down to her knees and said: “I want my little pussy fucked.” We all got undressed and she got on the bed, I went and sat down in front of her and she started sucking my cock again, I handed him a condom and he put it on, and then as he put it in her she let out a loud moan and took my cock all the way down. She was pushing her ass back, sucking my cock, and cumming a few times while he slid his cock in and out. He then stopped and we switched and I slid my cock in and told her, “I can feel where that cock was stretching that little pussy out.” and she immediately came again. After I fucked her for a while, I told her to turn over and let him fuck her. We flipped her on her back and he grabbed another condom. We were stuffing her at both ends like this and I was reaching down and playing with her clit. He then pulled out, ripped the condom off and knelt on the other side of her head from me. He was stroking his cock and said that he was going to cum soon to which she replied, “feed me that fucking cum, I want it so bad”. He then started to cum while we both had our heads on her face and he shot his load all over her mouth and face. Later, we tried to DP my wife, but it was ultimately a fail. There were a lot of nerves and things had been fucking crazy up to that point and we had already been going for an hour. She was on top of him, so I grabbed my phone and took a little video. This was over the top for me. They then stopped and I was playing with her pussy until she squirted (enough to fill a small coffee cup). I could see him getting hard again, so I tossed him a condom and said, “go for it”. After we passed her around a few times and she drank his cum out of the condom, I was feeling my balls tighten so I pulled out and jerked off all over her face.
He got dressed and left and her and I went to bed. In the aftermath, we have found that experience bonded us in ways we never expected, and a new found crazy little thing that is our secret that nobody knows. We all agreed to do it again sooner rather than later. It strengthened what we had already for me and wife sexually, trust wise, appreciation, and connection. There are a lot of bad stories out there, and I think that it has to do with being secure in your relationship, being really honest about what you are comfortable with. I would do it again in a heartbeat.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We felt a renewal in all aspects of our relationship and like we had shared something we both really wanted and accepted each other for that and really it was awesome.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We kept it between my wife and I. It’s hot for us.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? All of it
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That he lives far away
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. We are more open to it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think it’s a case by case thing and the biggest part is comfortability and honesty with your partner. That’ll make or break the whole thing
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Cool
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