What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 70
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Melbourne
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
What’s your occupation? Retired
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Always on the lookout
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Maybe 100
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 40 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I was diving buddies with her husband. My wife was friends with her and I had no interest in her. Her name was Sarah.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? There was no planning involved. I told her husband that I had a house call in their area on Monday morning. He said he was home and to drop in for coffee. Her husband was called into work. When I called Sarah said to come in for coffee. Sarah and her husband may have planned it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I sat at the kitchen table as Sarah made coffee. I was looking at her back. She was wearing baggy shorts and a loose shirt. I thought she had a good butt and legs. Sarah brought the coffee over to me and leaned over me as she put it on the table. Without thinking, I put my hand on the inside of her thigh. I was expecting a response, but she put her hands on my shoulders. I ran my hand up her thigh till it was touching her vagina. She let out a faint gasp. I slipped my fingers under the elasticated leg of her panties and cupped her vagina. She was moist and I rubbed her clit gently. I took my hand out and undid her shorts and took her shorts off. I took hold of her panties at the waist and pulled them down. She stepped out of them. Not a word had been said. I was still sitting down with her standing naked from the waist down. I took my shorts off and took off my briefs. My penis was fully erect, standing straight. She sat on my lap. She spread her legs on each side of the chair and lowered herself down onto my penis. She was sighing as she took my penis inside. She was a tight fit and felt amazing. She stopped and I took her shirt off. She had small perky breasts, which I like, and pointed nipples. I told her to turn around and fuck me. I rubbed her clit as she fucked me. She had a huge orgasm and kept fucking me. I pulled her down on my penis and orgasmed deep inside her. She stood up. I drank my coffee thanked her and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I was very horny all day. When I got home, I took my wife to bed and fucked her.
It was so good I wanted more.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Sarah’s husband came to talk to me at a party the following week. I was scared. I’m a small man and he is a giant. He said how did you enjoy my wife, and I said she’s amazing then he said she wants some more and walked off.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The whole fuck was amazing
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? When my wife found out
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was always into casual sex
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I found out later on that my wife had told Sarah I was well hung.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I always enjoyed and still do if I can get it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Its nothing new just easier to make contacts.
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