What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? UK
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Professional Gambler
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Never met before a very well dressed lady who I had never seen before. Very pretty face and super hot body. Neither of us was too drunk.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were separately trying to gain access to a late night club in my hometown in Ireland. She was English and was just visiting in holidays. Neither of us was let in along with some other people so she looked at me and asked, “where do we go now?” I said I knew one other place we could try, so the two of us walked together to a hotel. On the way, she leaned in to hold my arm as if she was cold and I reached around her to hold her. I then offered my jacket but she refused. When we got to the other hotel it was too late to get in there so now I knew it was either keep going with this girl or face a long walk home. She said the place she was staying was only a few hundred meters and she had some drinks at the house. She reluctantly took my jacket this time and as I put it on her I kissed her gently on the lips. We walked slowly to the house and we kissed along the way. I touched her ass gently and she said not to be so shy when we got back to the house. She had told me that she was staying with 3 female friends so I didn’t really know what to think and were they sharing rooms.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got to the house she said to skip the drinks and took me straight to her room. Up to this point, she had been quiet and reserved and even stopped me from touching her pussy as we walked to her place. However it all changed in seconds, she switched out the lights and she locked the door behind me as I came into her room. I was wearing a suit and she started to rip my clothes off. I was trying to slow her down as I knew I’d be putting these clothes back on in the morning. We were both naked in seconds and as she started to blow me on the bed I spun her around into a 69. Her pussy was completely shaven and her clit was pierced. Now I love eating pussy but when a girl has their clit pierced it can only mean they love having it pleasured. I gripped her thighs tight and buried my face in her pussy, she was super wet and as she blew me I could feel her getting tenser until she had a shuddering orgasm and drowned my face. I told her I had no condoms but she said it was OK she was on the pill but not to come inside her to be sure. She mounted me and fucked me as hard as she could but as she was so wet it wasn’t going very well. We then switched to missionary and this was when things really took off. She told me earlier she did yoga and athletics but this was something I’d only seen in porn movies. She put her ankles right up beside her ears and told me to fuck her as deep as I could. So I gave her my best action for 4 to 5 minutes before withdrawing and shooting my load all over her face. About 10 seconds after coming she switched on a lamp, sucked the remaining cum from my cock and pointed towards the shower. She said, “clean yourself up, we are not finished” so I did exactly as instructed. She left the lamp on this time and we started again with a 69 and then she sat in my lap, then straight to doggy style, surprisingly enough my cock was even harder the second time and she came really hard after a few minutes of doggy. She said she wanted me to come on her tits this time so I turned her around and put my cock right between her tits and she started giving me a titty wank. I came within seconds and she scooped up the cum and swallowed some of it. She went and showered off and I must have fallen asleep in that time. It was around 5 am. I woke at 8 am and told her I had to leave. I explained I was in a relationship that the sex we just had was amazing but that’s all it was sex. She reluctantly agreed but as I was putting on my pants she reached out of the bed and grabbed my cock again. She said, “if last night was just sex, this is just a blowjob to remind you.” This was by a long distance the best blowjob I had ever gotten. I came within 90 seconds and as soon as she swallowed she pulled the duvet back up and covered herself. I cleaned up in the bathroom and left quietly.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt guilty as it was the first time being unfaithful. I didn’t feel anything towards the girl other than she was hot but I will never forget the sex that night.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? A little bit
Why do you regret this hookup? I regretted it a bit at the time but looking back now it made me realize how good the relationship I had was and it was two years before I had another one night stand, much less impressive!
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The horniness of both of us, it was incredible.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Knowing it wouldn’t happen again.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yes. I think casual sex can be good for a relationship. Having sex with the same person for 30 years can’t keep both people happy all of the time. Being committed to a person and being faithful to a person need to be separated more.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? As above
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent idea, it is great to be able to share the stories anonymously that you can’t tell your friends about.
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