What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 43
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Missouri
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Military
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 300+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 years
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a 6’ tall black man, very handsome, well built, and well-dressed. I didn’t know him at all before. We met in one of the booths.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was in one of the booths watching a video, hoping someone I’d be attracted to would come in. I was sitting in the chair rubbing myself through my pants when the door opened. He looked at me for permission to come in and I motioned for him to enter. He stood next to me for a minute or so and I went back to rubbing myself and then unzipping my pants. He started rubbing himself and then unzipped and took his cock out. He was semi-hard and already bigger than me. I reached over and started stroking him so he then unbuttoned his pants and let it out. I took him into my mouth and started licking the head, sucking him, sucking his balls, and doing my best to take him all the way down my throat. He leaned down and rubbed my cock some as well. I was leaking pre-cum. I then stopped and asked if he wanted to fuck me. He said yes. I stood up, pulled my pants all the way down, got a condom and lube and put both on him.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? He kind of pushed me against the wall and went down to eat my ass. He did this for a minute then stood up and started to enter me. I told him I was very tight and go easy. He got his cock into my ass probably an inch or two then waited for me to relax. Once I relaxed, he started fucking me. I took him all the way in (I’m guessing he was 9”). He didn’t fuck me hard, but he fucked me steadily and aggressively. He pulled my face around and started nibbling on my ear and then started kissing me. The door opened and there were two guys standing there and they started watching. One of the guys got on his knees and started sucking me. The other left. I felt like I was in heaven. I was getting fucked by an amazing cock and then had a guy sucking me. I held my orgasm as long as I could eventually coming in the second guy’s mouth. The top continued to fuck me until he was about to come. He pulled the condom off and told me to get on my knees. He then shot his load onto my face.
I had nothing to clean up with other than my clothes so I used my shirt to wipe my face. The come, of course, leaked through is so it was pretty easy to tell what had happened.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? He actually said he wanted to do it again! I told him I couldn’t do that again that night. We exchanged email addresses and I left. As I walked out the clerk smiled and said have a good night. I’m sure he was watching on one of the cameras.
I felt great about it. It was an awesome hookup.
I never saw him again.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? I don’t know
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was amazing sex.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I love it!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I think it’s great!
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