What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 35
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Receptionist
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 70+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Virgins in Spain
How long ago did this hookup happen? 18 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (open)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? S and H were both 16 and sophomores in highschool. They had never had sex before although S had gotten a blowjob from his ex a few times.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were on a class trip to Spain for a week. It wasn’t really planned. We had a few drinks in their room and they told me they were virgins and I liked that.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went into the bathroom with H while S was still on the bed watching tv. We made out while he fingered me and I gave him head for a bit. He bent me over and fucked me in the shower for only about four minutes until he finished in me. I put my shorts back on, and he got in the shower. S was sitting on the bed and asked me what we had just done. I told him to lay down, and I would show him. We both got undressed, and I sucked his dick which was much bigger than H’s. He went down and ate me out which was funny because H had just cum in me five minutes before. He then fucked me missionary and came in me in like two minutes. Afterward we all just kind of hung out.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I called my boyfriend and told him. He was a little mad that I let them both cum inside me without a condom but since they were both virgins he wasn’t too worried about STDs. Overall it was good and I actually continued to fuck S for several months after.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Power/Dominance, It was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my bf. I like sex a lot and at the time hooked up with several guys with his permission
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I Got to take two guy’s virginities and made a new FWB in the process
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The sex didn’t last very long and months after continuing to fuck S, he started to get kind of clingy so I had to break it off.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really, I’ve always enjoyed casual sex and can separate sex from feelings with no problem.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoy it. Who cares what people think
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s cool
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